Shahzaz ud din
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May Allah bless with highest rank in Jannah al firsous ameen
What happened ?
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oon. I'm sorry for your loss. May Allah SWT grant him the highest abode in Jannah ul Firdous ameenPrayers
It hurts too much,
Never knew this is what a loss of parent feels like, A father who works tirelessly to raise their children with no personal end interests, Just to pass away when his child is almost on his feet and about to retire him, This is what makes me regret.
I think I have lost all motivation for life, My father was my motivation, To become an independent person so that I can retire him and return him the favors he did all life.
Now I am thinking, How will I spend the rest of my life without him, Someday I will get married but a lack of father will keep me isolated as man can only understand a man, not a wife. Then someday I will have kids maybe, I will cry wondering if he had ever seen my kids in life. Then I will grow old and yet I will remember the words and memories of my father.
Life is such a terrible dream, A bubble, You never know what is in for surprise the very next moment. But then again,
Life is nothing but a temporary prison for muslims, You have to move on and bear it, Keep going on, To get success in hereafter.
I cry thinking how my father would be lonely in a dark pit, All alone, While I am not beside him.
All I can do is do dhikr and recite Quran and Pray nawafils for him or give sadaqah.
DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY TIPS TO MEET DECEASED PARENT IN DREAM ?
@Mangus Ortus Novem @MastanKhan
Don't worry Brother. INSHALLAH you will meet him everyday in Jannah. This life is temporary. The Life After Death is Permanent.It hurts too much,
Never knew this is what a loss of parent feels like, A father who works tirelessly to raise their children with no personal end interests, Just to pass away when his child is almost on his feet and about to retire him, This is what makes me regret.
I think I have lost all motivation for life, My father was my motivation, To become an independent person so that I can retire him and return him the favors he did all life.
Now I am thinking, How will I spend the rest of my life without him, Someday I will get married but a lack of father will keep me isolated as man can only understand a man, not a wife. Then someday I will have kids maybe, I will cry wondering if he had ever seen my kids in life. Then I will grow old and yet I will remember the words and memories of my father.
Life is such a terrible dream, A bubble, You never know what is in for surprise the very next moment. But then again,
Life is nothing but a temporary prison for muslims, You have to move on and bear it, Keep going on, To get success in hereafter.
I cry thinking how my father would be lonely in a dark pit, All alone, While I am not beside him.
All I can do is do dhikr and recite Quran and Pray nawafils for him or give sadaqah.
DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY TIPS TO MEET DECEASED PARENT IN DREAM ?
@Mangus Ortus Novem @MastanKhan
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Yes,إِنَّا لِلَّٰهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ
i have been through this ... twice, yes i have lost both my folks and let me tell you something bro, words are not going to heal, people WILL say stuff out of courtesy but they don't understand the pain you are going through, the same applies for me right now, i am typing this message while being sorry for your loss i cannot put myself in your shoes but can relate to a similar situation, just be strong, only time will heal
Yes,
Thank you a lot for understanding. There is a ritual Babur did to save Humayun while the doctors gave up on him, He circled 3 times and said “If death is written for him, I shall have it in place if him”, Although this Has no significance in Islam,
If only I knew that stroke would happen, I would have done that for my dad in hope that the Almighty Exaulted would accept me for death while cure my dad.
But the news came out as a surprise, I will post complete story after somedays.