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Dubai Ruler To Pay £554 Million In Record Divorce Settlement To Estranged Wife Princess Haya

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Again what did bezos wife pr Gates wife contribute ?


I think they think it has to do with lifestyle and such. However, it seems more towards scaring people away from marriage than anything else. You MGTOW type movements and people who don't want to get married.

In reality, marriage is primarily for the sake of guarding the rights of children. The mahr and such exist but these are meant to do the basics.
 
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Question is..

Is it worth getting married? You work hard all your life. You provide for your family. You build a business then she decides she needs a change. Contributes zero to the family finances and takes half?

Molvis will jump on the halal bandwagon but I would say re look at my question. We're our mother's like our wives. Will our daughter in laws be like our mother? If not then don't blame my question blame society and just contribute logically to my question

It benefits the children. Western research by The Almighty White man shows that children from nuclear families fair well in life and development versus as the traditional "bastards" out of wedlock.

The Nuclear Family Is Still Indispensable

Rumors of its demise have been greatly exaggerated—and it remains the stablest environment in which to raise children.
By W. Bradford Wilcox and Hal Boyd
A family of four
H. Armstrong Roberts / Getty
February 21, 2020

About the authors: W. Bradford Wilcox, a professor of sociology at the University of Virginia, is senior fellow at the Institute for Family Studies and a visiting scholar at the American Enterprise Institute. Hal Boyd is an associate professor of family law and policy at Brigham Young University’s School of Family Life and a fellow of the Wheatley Institution.

The nuclear family is disintegrating—or so Americans might conclude from what they watch and read. The quintessential nuclear family consists of a married couple raising their children. But from Oscar-winning Marriage Story’s gut-wrenching portrayal of divorce or the Harvard sociologist Christina Cross’s New York Times op-ed in December, “The Myth of the Two-Parent Home,” discounting the importance of marriage for kids, one might draw the conclusion that marriage is more endangered than ever—and that this might not be such a bad thing.

Yet the search for alternate forms of family has two major flaws. First, there’s evidence indicating that the nuclear family is, in fact, recovering. Second, a nuclear family headed by two loving married parents remains the most stable and safest environment for raising children.
 
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He stupid if he pays this, he has no obligation to serve UK court ruling. -- Same goes for Pakistani Govt. as well.
 
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It benefits the children. Western research by The Almighty White man shows that children from nuclear families fair well in life and development versus as the traditional "bastards" out of wedlock.

The Nuclear Family Is Still Indispensable

Rumors of its demise have been greatly exaggerated—and it remains the stablest environment in which to raise children.
By W. Bradford Wilcox and Hal Boyd
A family of four
H. Armstrong Roberts / Getty
February 21, 2020

About the authors: W. Bradford Wilcox, a professor of sociology at the University of Virginia, is senior fellow at the Institute for Family Studies and a visiting scholar at the American Enterprise Institute. Hal Boyd is an associate professor of family law and policy at Brigham Young University’s School of Family Life and a fellow of the Wheatley Institution.

The nuclear family is disintegrating—or so Americans might conclude from what they watch and read. The quintessential nuclear family consists of a married couple raising their children. But from Oscar-winning Marriage Story’s gut-wrenching portrayal of divorce or the Harvard sociologist Christina Cross’s New York Times op-ed in December, “The Myth of the Two-Parent Home,” discounting the importance of marriage for kids, one might draw the conclusion that marriage is more endangered than ever—and that this might not be such a bad thing.

Yet the search for alternate forms of family has two major flaws. First, there’s evidence indicating that the nuclear family is, in fact, recovering. Second, a nuclear family headed by two loving married parents remains the most stable and safest environment for raising children.
Actually brother not true...if you have no children the wife is still entitled to 50%.

Now in the west...common law wife...I.e a gf who lives with you is also entitled to 50%.
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I think they think it has to do with lifestyle and such. However, it seems more towards scaring people away from marriage than anything else. You MGTOW type movements and people who don't want to get married.

In reality, marriage is primarily for the sake of guarding the rights of children. The mahr and such exist but these are meant to do the basics.
Once again...now you don't need children to get 50%. Hell you don't even have to be married...just live together and get 50%.
If you are thinking of the lifestyle then it was the man that provided the lifestyle....that's my point. Man does all the hard work and she take all 50% of the money so is it worth getting married...would be cheaper to buy her a house and pay for all the bills. Have separate addresses and then if she decides I don't want you....cool keep the house.

But again isn't that borderline prostitution wrapped as marriage.

I remember my mother literally would sacrifice everything for my father and us (her children). Those women no longer exist. Sadly
 
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Exactly bro...she was banging her British security guard. So once again....my question re marriage in this day and age

IMO its a gamble, if both are honest in the relationship, and stick to principles to Islam. Its the best thing for life and your kids. If you are taking inspiration from modern day media and social norms and your wife is of the views of "modern empowerment" than your life will get screwed at some point in time, and that will not only effect you but your children as well.
 
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Meh.

It's about knowing whether Allah has allowed or forbidden something. If that doesn't stop you (or makes you try to stop whilst acknowledging it as wrong if it is forbidden by Allah), then it doesn't matter what anyone says. Molvis don't matter. They aren't going to be judging on that Day.

If you live somewhere where it's legal to do whatever, and you don't care about the deen, then do whatever you wish. There are many people, including many molvis, who do whatever they can get away with here.
Again...why not answer my question?

Didn't I say molvis will jump on halal haram...I wonder if you do everything 100% halal.
IMO its a gamble, if both are honest in the relationship, and stick to principles to Islam. Its the best thing for life and your kids. If you are taking inspiration from modern day media and social norms and your wife is of the views of "modern empowerment" than your life will get screwed at some point in time, and that will not only effect you but your children as well.
Good answer bahi.
 
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Actually brother not true...if you have no children the wife is still entitled to 50%.

Now in the west...common law wife...I.e a gf who lives with you is also entitled to 50%

That's true. Without kids in the equation, the marriage proposition is a losing argument for the man.
 
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The wife was cheating and yet husband has to pay! wow british law at its fu***** best!!

lol british laws bends the man over, the women get away. so much stories over here how the women screwed the man over for every penny he got.They play it intelligently the state has a debt collector institution which they ring you for child maintenance pay and add their greed percentage on top and they get to do it because they use the law of confidentality and safety that you cant ring your ex partner to pay directly so you have to go through them and get ripped off for life. if you do not comply then bailiff come. You are fcuked for life.
He stupid if he pays this, he has no obligation to serve UK court ruling. -- Same goes for Pakistani Govt. as well.

but his dynasty is bastrd child of British western slavery.
 
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lol british laws bends the man over, the women get away. so much stories over here how the women screwed the man over for every penny he got.They play it intelligently the state has a debt collector institution which they ring you for child maintenance pay and add their greed percentage on top and they get to do it because they use the law of confidentality and safety that you cant ring your ex partner to pay directly so you have to go through them and get ripped off for life. if you do not comply then bailiff come. You are fcuked for life.


but his dynasty is bastrd child of British western slavery.
Now this is happening in Pakistan as well.
 
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no offence guys but Pakistani born women who comes over to Britain is biggest offenders of divorce and domestic abuse excuse to get stay for life and claim money from husband including try taking his house.
The modern technology has made it easier like smartphone, watsapp etc they use this as group chat to discuss ideas on how to get stay and screw husband so they advise each other and plan. They also use it to meet bf that also from pakistan originally and have claimed stay and domestic abuse in uk. In my town the divorcee fraudsters know each other from back home and stay in touch here in uk and they meet up sometimes. its a big criminal network. uk pak man is crying.
 
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no offence guys but Pakistani born women who comes over to Britain is biggest offenders of divorce and domestic abuse excuse to get stay for life and claim money from husband including try taking his house.
The modern technology has made it easier like smartphone, watsapp etc they use this as group chat to discuss ideas on how to get stay and screw husband so they advise each other and plan. They also use it to meet bf that also from pakistan originally and have claimed stay and domestic abuse in uk. In my town the divorcee fraudsters know each other from back home and stay in touch here in uk and they meet up sometimes. its a big criminal network. uk pak man is crying.
Wow...that's sad.

I am not surprised however.
 
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