excellent post.
if anything, islam is the most peace-making and democratic of the older religions, respecting neither cultural mores nor family hierarchy nor mysticism, but looking only at resolving and preventing disputes so that life is made easier... islam may not be complete for the future but it was the most complete when compared to other older religions.
there are practical laws in islam ranging from divorce ( personal comfort ) to prohibition of interest-based loans ( social justice )... these form the real islam, not celebrating festivals or mourning or banging the forehead while praying in a mosque.
those claimers of muslim fellowship who do violence obviously are only following wrong non-islami cultural ideas and their own criminal tendencies... but i also blame the western governments who purposely project these criminals as "muslim"... whenever bbc wants to show palestine, they show post-2007 gaza filled with burqa/mullah types, never they show normal muslims in the "west bank" part.
as an aside, that photo describes a ridiculous trend among some muslim ladies presently... calling themselves "muslimah"... what the hell does that mean??
another ridiculous modern trend is of saying "jazak allah khair".