DO WOMEN DESERVE RESPECT

[rockstar08]

The video shows a slap on the face of the guy (Sham) who was talking about using them as tissue paper when the guy he was advising to (Zaid) was actually talking about his (Sham's) sister


Its actually supposed to be an eye opener...I just watched the video few hrs ago....

For some men, women are not worthy UNTIL some incident effects their own women (MOTHER, SISTER, FIANCEE, COUSIN, FRIEND, WIFE)

you are taking it way to serious ... everyone knows this nothing new ..
and for our society .. this videos means nothing ... it will change some boy's heart for 15 mins and later ?
and no to forget the girl who , treat boys like their personal Servants..


and to be honest that i never laugh at videos of Zaid Ali , badi tabyat se farigh comedy kerta hai

 

[Indus Falcon]

The thread title is wrong, but the video not only sends an important message about respect to women, but double standards. It reminded me of an incident at a school in Karachi a few years back.

Three teenagers paid a female janitor of the girls block to lock up a female student in the toilet. After school the boys went over to the girls toilets, and as agreed there was a female student locked up in one of the toilets. One by one they entered the toilet and raped her. When the third boy entered he was shocked to see his own sister. He came out and started fighting with the other two boys, lost the fight and he and his sister both ended by in ICU.

The culprits were arrested.

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[denel]

what stupidity.

 

[Dubious]

Where are you doing your law from, Jamia Hafsa by any chance?
As for that those women's 'wants and desires'- tell that to my fiancee.
Show me a similar verse for a woman- where she just 'may' marry 4 men.

1stly, you need to show me a woman who wants to marry 4 men....Taking care of 1 overly sized baby (husband) with children is bad enough than wanting a need to look after 4 overly sized babies

What does your fiancee wanna marry 4? Tell her to either seek a psychiatrist or go to Thailand for surgery...Now quit trolling

The thread title is wrong, but the video not only sends an important message about respect to women, but double standards. It reminded me of an incident at a school in Karachi a few years back.

Three teenagers paid a female janitor of the girls block to lock up a female student in the toilet. After school the boys went over to the girls toilets, and as agreed there was a female student locked up in one of the toilets. One by one they entered the toilet and raped her. When the third boy entered he was shocked to see his own sister. He came out and started fighting with the other two boys, lost the fight and he and his sister both ended by in ICU.

The culprits were arrested.

That is sad and disgusting

you are taking it way to serious ... everyone knows this nothing new ..
and for our society .. this videos means nothing ... it will change some boy's heart for 15 mins and later ?
and no to forget the girl who , treat boys like their personal Servants..


and to be honest that i never laugh at videos of Zaid Ali , badi tabyat se farigh comedy kerta hai

Because sadly it isnt...

2ndly, just like not all male treat women like tissue paper not all women treat boys like servants....there are rotten apples on both sides, but it doesnt give one the right to loose or disrespect one or the other...Like I said before, what kills one to respect the other based on the fact that the other is a human being?

Usually the topic of woman comes up because most of the world (no matter how much they deny it) do practice a level of patriarch society ....it is a man's nature to be dominant and sometimes in that blindness he does overstep hence the warnings all over the Quran regarding transgressors....

 

[rockstar08]

1stly, you need to show me a woman who wants to marry 4 men....Taking care of 1 overly sized baby (husband) with children is bad enough than wanting a need to look after 4 overly sized babies

What does your fiancee wanna marry 4? Tell her to either seek a psychiatrist or go to Thailand for surgery...Now quit trolling


That is sad and disgusting


Because sadly it isnt...

2ndly, just like not all male treat women like tissue paper not all women treat boys like servants....there are rotten apples on both sides, but it doesnt give one the right to loose or disrespect one or the other...Like I said before, what kills one to respect the other based on the fact that the other is a human being?

Usually the topic of woman comes up because most of the world (no matter how much they deny it) do practice a level of patriarch society ....it is a man's nature to be dominant and sometimes in that blindness he does overstep hence the warnings all over the Quran regarding transgressors....

yeah but still these videos makes no difference ..
the message is very old , everyone know it and understand it , but never follow it ..

 

[Indus Falcon]

That is sad and disgusting

NO matter how sad and disgusting, there are two lessons to be learnt here:

1) Double Standards / hypocrisy - Never Pays!!

2) You shall reap, what you sow - Don't think you can get away with it. Sooner or later it will come back to bite you , when you least expect it!!

 

[Dubious]

2) You shall reap, what you sow - Don't think you can get away with it. Sooner or later it will come back to bite you , when you least expect it!!

Sad part was the sister had to pay for the bro to learn a lesson

Haha..you're good with twisting words. Jamia Hafsa must have raised standards for hypocrisy.
I wasn't talking about a woman wanting to bed with 4 men when I quoted you on women's wants and desires.
I was talking about how a woman would feel should her husband abandons monogamy.

Hmmm...So I'm trolling 'cause ya can't back your claims. Well, enjoy your 4 wives.
Try keeping your 'biological' lectures to yourself and I'll keep my trolling to myself.

What you said:

How would ya feel if your wife were allowed by law to bed with 4 men?

where she just 'may' marry 4 men.

What claims?

 

[Husnainshah]

women are still disrespected though not openly

 

[Shamain]

Ihave a question to ask?

If men use abusive language and all its considered fine.

But if women are harassed and insulted and in return they respond back in harsh words and use abusive lang then everyone starts jumping down the throat that , this is so unladylike and bla bla etc,
Isnt it hypocrisy?

Eveyone gets angered at being insulted and specially when harassed.
Why when men curse and fight its considered cool,if women react strongly its viewed with utter disdain and contempt.


Why double standards?

 

[Jungibaaz]

For this you made a thread?

 

[Indus Falcon]

Ihave a question to ask?

If men use abusive language and all its considered fine.

But if women are harassed and insulted and in return they respond back in harsh words and use abusive lang then everyone starts jumping down the throat that , this is so unladylike and bla bla etc,
Isnt it hypocrisy?

Eveyone gets angered at being insulted and specially when harassed.
Why when men curse and fight its considered cool,if women react strongly its viewed with utter disdain and contempt.


Why double standards?

Good Question

1) "If men use abusive language" - it's NOT considered fine. It reflects on your upbringing and family background. Thats why my platoon, or people who served under me never used foul language. I always told them "We are humans, we should behave like humans."

2) "If women are harassed" - They can still raise their voice, without resorting to foul language.

Conclusion: Irrespective of you gender, if you use foul language you are not insulting anyone, but showing your true colors. Best way to sort it out is without indulging in profanities, and weakening your case.

Peace!!

 

[Shamain]

For this you made a thread?

Hahahahahahahahah

 

[Indus Falcon]

For this you made a thread?

Yaar Jungi, give them a break. There are young people on the forum, they could do with a little bit of clearing their doubts.

Note: As much as I love your GIF. Don't name your kid CLINT !!!

 

[Shamain]

Good Question

1) "If men use abusive language" - it's NOT considered fine. It reflects on your upbringing and family background. Thats why my platoon, or people who served under me never used foul language. I always told them "We are humans, we should behave like humans."

2) "If women are harassed" - They can still raise their voice, without resorting to foul language.

Conclusion: Irrespective of you gender, if you use foul language you are not insulting anyone, but showing your true colors. Best way to sort it out is without indulging in profanities, and weakening your case.

Peace!!

Okay.

@Indus Falcon. But i would say on our eastern side this hypocritical attitude exists and badly exists.

Experienced it on this forum.

 

[Indus Falcon]

Okay.

@Indus Falcon. But i would say on our eastern side this hypocritical attitude exists and badly exists.

Experienced it on this forum.

Whatever exists, exists. You can't change the whole world, BUT you can change yourself. Can't you?