VCheng
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I am in academia, and I am in the position to provide some insider qualitative perspective which you cannot notice in state-funded statistics and otherwise. Hear me now.
Feminism have spilled over into other countries via 'centers of learning' which are known to exchange teachers and students, and a large number of books and publications belonging to Feminist authors are taught to students worldwide. Not surprisingly, this menace have infiltrated Pakistan via 'centers of learning' route, but Pakistani social norms are not easy to erase due to prevalence of religious practices here. However, 'gender politics' remain a matter of grave concern here, and men need to raise their voices more often or risk collapse of the institution of marriage here as well.
There are OTHER relatively straightforward perspectives to highlight causes of decline in the institution of marriage but the root cause is global expansion of Feminism - which in turn is a byproduct of Marxism - under the veil of women rights and affiliated arguments for sexual liberation. Atheism and Secularism are silent enablers of these ideologies as well. This is a world which is increasingly female-hypergamy (real PLANET OF THE APES).
SOLUTION:-
THE STATE / RELIGIOUS BODIES should pay close attention to 'centers of learning' and exert pressure on them to commit to:
01. Teaching men and women to respect the 'institution of marriage' and highlight its merits and importance for the society at large.
02. Academic CRITIC of Feminism and how it undermined the institution of marriage in various countries.
03. Teaching men and women to listen to each other, and search for common grounds and ways to complement each other in all aspects of life instead of blame-shifting (i.e. Gender Harmony).
04. Increase awareness of MENTAL DISORDERS / DISEASES that can contribute to questionable behaviors in individuals (men and women), and potential remedies.
05. Equip men and women with the necessary skills to better cope with the challenges of life, and not be SNOWFLAKES in terms of expectations from each other.
THE STATE / RELIGIOUS BODIES should also:
06. Offer INCENTIVES to married couples.
07. Instruct COURTS to look into the possibility of reconciling feuding couples and issue a WARNING to bad sources of influence in each case.
08. Recognize each case of cohabitation as an act of marriage after a span of 6 months (all legalities of marriage applicable therein).
09. Promote INFORMED CRITIC of Feminism and Marxism in all platforms.
10. Make pornography illegal and punishable by death (sellers and accomplices including).
Feminists will be up in arms of-course but THE STATE / RELIGIOUS BODIES can box them in with good homework and measures.
The WEST have fallen into the pit of social decay, and will implode at some point in the future. Following are interesting developments:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men's_rights_movement
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/07/13/style/mens-rights-movement.html
https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-mens-rights-movement-now-has-their-own-law-firm
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As for Pakistan; women can have a fulfilling life in an enlightened Islamic environment, they should be made aware of the destructive implications of Feminism because Feminism is making things harder for them (not easier). Surah an-Nisa of the Holy Quran represent a charter of human rights (including women rights) from Allah Almighty.
Unfortunately, Pakistan's Ministry of Religious Affairs is a JOKE. However, raising your voice can make difference; Supreme Court banned open access to pornography across Pakistan upon receiving a complaint from some individuals in this regard.
So now you are talking about Pakistan. If you are in academia in Pakistan and these are your views, then I can accept them as being valid for Pakistan. The West can deal with its fall into the "pit of social decay" on its own. I am in academia too, and I feel their societies will evolve over time to deal with such changes just fine. The risks of social implosion are far higher in Pakistan by comparison, in my view.