Co-education system a ‘ticking time bomb’ for youth: JI leader

[maravan91]

Co-education system a ‘ticking time bomb’ for youth: JI leader

https://tribune.com.pk/story/1547981/1-co-education-system-ticking-time-bomb-youth-ji-leader/

 

[war&peace]

In a country where a male Dr gets fired for sending a friends' request on facebook to a so called "liberal" woman , co-education and inter-mingling of opposite genders should be 100% banned @I.R.A @django @OverLoad @Garfield @Divergent @Well.wisher @OverLoad

 

[Divergent]

In a country where a male Dr gets fired for sending a friends' request on facebook to a so called "liberal" woman , co-education and inter-mingling of opposite genders should be 100% banned @I.R.A @django @OverLoad @Garfield @Divergent @Well.wisher @OverLoad

I don’t see a problem with intermixing Whilst educating, it helps you engage better with the opposite gender, this world is both created for Men and Women. Instead of building a wall of China between them and dropping them into the deep end where they don’t know how to communicate, how to approach, come across or even tackle a situation. It’s best to be aware.

Parents who wish to send their children to segregated schools can do so and those who wish to send them to mixed can also do so. In a working environment and other aspects of their lives they will have to engage with the opposite gender anyways.

 

[war&peace]

I don’t see a problem with intermixing Whilst educating, it helps you engage better with the opposite gender, this world is both created for Men and Women. Instead of building a wall of China between them and dropping them into the deep end where they don’t know how to communicate or some across or even tackle a situation. It’s best to be vary.

Parents who wish to send their children to segregated schools can do so and those who wish to send them to mixed can also do so. In a working environment and other aspects of their lives they will have to engage with he opposite gender.

But what if that "shameless brazen" male classmate harasses the "liberal" girl by sending a facebook request. Should he be rusticated and condemned for life (much like AKUH ended the job of the Dr) or just behead him publicly

 

[Goenitz]

i think in college or universities should be a co education
also till primary there shd be a coeducation... or all will turn gay

 

[Divergent]

But what if that "shameless brazen" male classmate harasses the "liberal" girl by sending a facebook request. Should he be rusticated and condemned or just behead him publicly

You don’t need to take it that far. Everyone should know what ‘harassment’ is. Just because one woman chooses to chose her Choicing of words poorly doesn’t mean all think the same.

 

[Pakistani E]

co-education and inter-mingling of opposite genders should be 100% banned

May I be so bold as to ask, did you study in a mixed environment? If yes, you would certainly have seen it close up, what do you believe are it's main advantages and disadvantages? Did it allow you to be confident and respectful when engaging with people who are different from you? Or would you say it is more detrimental to one's mental well being?

 

[lastofthepatriots]

May I be so bold as to ask, did you study in a mixed environment? If yes, you would certainly have seen it close up, what do you believe are it's main advantages and disadvantages? Did it allow you to be confident and respectful when engaging with people who are different from you? Or would you say it is more detrimental to one's mental well being?

School is for nerds. Who gives a shit about boys, girls, aliens or whatever. Most kids hate school.

 

[Maarkhoor]

In a country where a male Dr gets fired for sending a friends' request on facebook to a so called "liberal" woman , co-education and inter-mingling of opposite genders should be 100% banned @I.R.A @django @OverLoad @Garfield @Divergent @Well.wisher @OverLoad

I have one word for this hypocrisy.

@war&peace
I need you help to raise fund raising thread for a member who's pants worn off and we should give a pair of new pants.

 

[war&peace]

May I be so bold as to ask, did you study in a mixed environment? If yes, you would certainly have seen it close up, what do you believe are it's main advantages and disadvantages? Did it allow you to be confident and respectful when engaging with people who are different from you? Or would you say it is more detrimental to one's mental well being?

I had co-education most of my life , even my religious education, I was taught how to recite the Holy Quran and basic Arabic by a Palestinian women and her daughters. The only apprehension my parents had was perhaps I would grow up too girlish so they had to curate the list of my friends and activities and made sure, there were more male friends and I spent quality time with them instead of girls and no sleep overs at any girls place. But I learnt a lot. So personally I think it should be an options and parents can select.

However at certain age when hormones are raging and energy is overwhelming and kids start to get curious about each other, I would say it is better to separate them or parents and teachers have to keep a stern eye on children's activity. Quite a lot of things happened that made my life a bit stressful which I may not feel comfortable sharing here but I thinking retrospectively, I feel non-co-education environment may have been less stressful, for that particular phase of life, as my family is educated but conservative. But since sophomore level I developed my own strong personality and an invisible iron dome that does not let any transgression..

 

[lastofthepatriots]

I had co-education most of my life , even my religious education, I was taught how to recite the Holy Quran and basic Arabic by a Palestinian women and her daughters. The only apprehension my parents had was perhaps I would grow up too girlish so they had to curate the list of my friends and activities and made sure, there were more male friends and I spent quality time with them instead of girls and no sleep overs at any girls place. But I learnt a lot. So personally I think it should be an options and parents can select.

However at certain age when hormones are raging and energy is overwhelming and kids start to get curious about each other, I would say it is better to separate them or parents and teachers have to keep a stern eye on children's activity. Quite a lot of things happened that made my life a bit stressful which I may not feel comfortable sharing here but I thinking retrospectively, I feel non-co-education environment may have been less stressful as my family is educated but conservative. But since sophomore level I developed my own strong personality and an invisible iron dome that does not let any transgression..

You might not be be comfortable sharing, but it will most likely be beneficial.

Now point out on this doll where the man or woman touched you.

 

[Pakistani E]

I had co-education most of my life , even my religious education, I was taught how to recite the Holy Quran and basic Arabic by a Palestinian women and her daughters. The only apprehension my parents had was perhaps I would grow up too girlish so they had to curate the list of my friends and activities and made sure, there were more male friends and I spent quality time with them instead of girls and no sleep overs at any girls place. But I learnt a lot. So personally I think it should be an options and parents can select.

However at certain age when hormones are raging and energy is overwhelming and kids start to get curious about each other, I would say it is better to separate them or parents and teachers have to keep a stern eye on children's activity. Quite a lot of things happened that made my life a bit stressful which I may not feel comfortable sharing here but I thinking retrospectively, I feel non-co-education environment may have been less stressful as my family is educated but conservative. But since sophomore level I developed my own strong personality and an invisible iron dome that does not let any transgression..

Thank you for that detailed response, and I completely respect your decision about not sharing it here, I would certainly advise you not to anyway.

I personally have not made up my mind about this, the advantages and disadvantages of both are numerous. I think it should be left to the individuals to decide this matter. I had no issues personally, on the contrary I think it has made me more receptive to the sensitivities of others in an professional environment. But the point you make about hormones etc is very valid and one that needs to be taken in to account.

 

[MultaniGuy]

co-education should be banned.

 

[Pakistani E]

School is for nerds. Who gives a shit about boys, girls, aliens or whatever. Most kids hate school.

Ikr. I always think my elders life was so much more simpler. Join the army or become a farmer.

 

[war&peace]

Thank you for that detailed response, and I completely respect your decision about not sharing it here, I would certainly advise you not to anyway.

I personally have not made up my mind about this, the advantages and disadvantages of both are numerous. I think it should be left to the individuals to decide this matter. I had no issues personally, on the contrary I think it has made me more receptive to the sensitivities of others in an professional environment. But the point you make about hormones etc is very valid and one that needs to be taken in to account.

There is no straight answer. Of course a child cannot decide for him/her-self. But at college and university level, it should be okay. My generation is perhaps the one that grew up with all these computers, internet and touch screens .. so parents have to be quite tech savvy to keep up with their kids. So it is more difficult for parents now than ever before.

You might not be be comfortable sharing, but it will most likely be beneficial.

Now point out on this doll where the man or woman touched you.

I will tell you everything with full details if you find a doll that resembles me.. not this one

I have one word for this hypocrisy.

@war&peace
I need you help to raise fund raising thread for a member who's pants worn off and we should give a pair of new pants.