Dear Fakhr love is every thing the real love Ishq e haqiqi start with love of a girl and ends up on Haqiqi pls do read Ish Ka ain by Aleem ul Haq Haqi.
Only a tharki's Ishq e Haqiqi would need a girl to start as Ishq e Mijazi and then convert to Haqiqi where he goes full retard with a beard , a shawl and surma in his eyes.