did you just extrapolated your life in bangalore to rest of India?
What you prefer to do is upto you, I am talking about how it looks to outsiders... you are used to that life, obviously you wont know the difference... if you live in slums you wont know the smell of gutter.
The smoke, pollution, lying cheating people, mad traffic, lack of sanitation/hygene.. these are the things that are basic and makes life unbearable. May be you are well off, travel in air conditioned cars, live in a nicer part of city, got domestic help, basically live in a cocoon...
anyway you are going to be defensive about it... so whats the point.