Chinese men’s marriages to local women often end badly

[Rechoice]

I am sure you don't want another ban.....

yes, you are right.

how about you friend ? delay of salary payment is existed in China, very sad. What do you do to earn money in China now ? machine driver or Auditing consultant ?

 

[Edison Chen]

yes, you are right.

how about you friend ? delay of salary payment is existed in China, very sad. What do you do to earn money in China now ? machine driver or Auditing consultant ?

I am poor now, I have to sell my kidney for money. Can you lend me some money?

 

[Raphael]

The only Chinese men willing to marry Viet women are the lowest on society's totem pole. They aren't rich either (but apparently, rich enough to pay the marriage pimp's broker's fee). Same for men from Taiwan/South Korea. So knowing this, why are Viet women still so desperate to throw themselves at these foreign men? Maybe they have a problem with Viet men?

 

[liall]

American men go to Ukraine for Brides.....So what? Vietnamese men not going to Cambodia is an accomplishment now..... You got real high standards.

Chinese one child policy prevented almost 500 million born into poverty, sorry if it doesn't fit your "humane" ideas. I'm not sure how being born to Vietnamese poverty is better, but maybe it is, since you got a first hand experience there.

if that did happen you would be close to 2 billion by now? damn that's scary

 

[Viet]

I never understood Vietnamese posting this kind of news, without going into the specifics I'll just ask, when did you become better economically than China.

I mean sure if you want to smear or something on China you can do that, but don't do it in one of the areas we far out perform you.

This is like China laughing at Americans for being poor. Very stupid.

I don´t think it is primarily about economics but rather cultural differences and wrong expectations of both sides.

it can´t be economics reason because while VN is defined as low income country (aka dirty poor with $1,000 per capita), CN is the way of reaching superpower status and high income close to Singapore.

No, as everyone knows, China and Vietnam are too different in culture and custom. Not to mention the foods are different. How can couples live together with such differences. No way. It is best when chinese men look for brides elsewhere.

How about brides in Indonesia? your wannbe best friend of friends? or Thai? of course chinese men should verify if it is a she or he when marry. what about Pakistan? your best friend on earth.

if that did happen you would be close to 2 billion by now? damn that's scary

no, it is just half, but nevertheless will be called chinese zob invasion

I am poor now, I have to sell my kidney for money. Can you lend me some money?

no money, but I have some left from the breakfast, do you want it?

 

[liall]

I don´t think it is primarily about economics but rather cultural differences and wrong expectations of both sides.

it can´t be economics reason because while VN is defined as low income country (aka dirty poor with $1,000 per capita), CN is the way of reaching superpower status and high income close to Singapore.

No, as everyone knows, China and Vietnam are too different in culture and custom. Not to mention the foods are different. How can couples live together with such differences. No way. It is best when chinese men look for brides elsewhere.

How about brides in Indonesia? your wannbe best friend of friends? or Thai? of course chinese men should verify if it is a she or he when marry. what about Pakistan? your best friend on earth.


no, it is just half, but nevertheless will be called chinese zob invasion

Invasion is already there. Even in India which isnt rich at all there are many Chinese people working here in Delhi. I think of it as a good sign for India

 

[Aepsilons]

OT:

I wouldn't mind marrying a Vietnamese lady if she looked like the following...

 

[Viet]

The only Chinese men willing to marry Viet women are the lowest on society's totem pole. They aren't rich either (but apparently, rich enough to pay the marriage pimp's broker's fee). Same for men from Taiwan/South Korea. So knowing this, why are Viet women still so desperate to throw themselves at these foreign men? Maybe they have a problem with Viet men?

so if Viet bride marries a foreigner, there is a problem.
How about Chinese bride if she marries a non-chinese?

is she a hooker as well?

 

[Edison Chen]

no money, but I have some left from the breakfast, do you want it?

You are a stingy person. Viet.

OT:

I wouldn't mind marrying a Vietnamese lady if she looked like the following...

There is no doubt she is beautiful. I suspect you will marry her. Because your father will be angry if you don't keep your family blood consistent.

 

[Genesis]

if that did happen you would be close to 2 billion by now? damn that's scary

Don't worry by 2050 I think India would see what 2 billion looks like.

Invasion is already there. Even in India which isnt rich at all there are many Chinese people working here in Delhi. I think of it as a good sign for India

Yea, chinese escaping to India, lol. They are mostly there for business or as contract workers. India is not one of the places Chinese go to, make your per capita 2-3 times ours we may think about it.

I don´t think it is primarily about economics but rather cultural differences and wrong expectations of both sides.

it can´t be economics reason because while VN is defined as low income country (aka dirty poor with $1,000 per capita), CN is the way of reaching superpower status and high income close to Singapore.

No, as everyone knows, China and Vietnam are too different in culture and custom. Not to mention the foods are different. How can couples live together with such differences. No way. It is best when chinese men look for brides elsewhere.

How about brides in Indonesia? your wannbe best friend of friends? or Thai? of course chinese men should verify if it is a she or he when marry. what about Pakistan? your best friend on earth.

You got problems dude, real problems. Seek help. German and Vietnamese, you bring Racism to a whole different level.

As to culturally different, my longest relationship was in college with a Irish Canadian, so yea.....

so if Viet bride marries a foreigner, there is a problem.
How about Chinese bride if she marries a non-chinese?

is she a hooker as well?

We can marry who ever we want, including your Vietnamese brides, women and men that are after money in a marriage exist in an country developed or not. No big deal.

The fact you would even suggest that, even sarcastically really shows your thinking. Again, get help, but not from me, cause I can't see your comments after this.

 

[Aepsilons]

There is no doubt she is beautiful. I suspect you will marry her. Because your father will be angry if you don't keep your family blood consistent.

Ha Ha Ha ! My father doesn't even know I dated a Kankukojin (Korean) girl before...

I hear from my friends that are dating South East Asian girls that their partners are very affectionate, loving, and also, spicy. I've never dated a Southeastern girl before, but, I'm open to it. How about you Ed? Only Chinese girls for you?

 

[dlclong]

Many Vietnamese women went to China to get married as an excuse to defraud, Vietnam has many such "Company"

 

[Viet]

You got problems dude, real problems. Seek help. German and Vietnamese, you bring Racism to a whole different level.

As to culturally different, my longest relationship was in college with a Irish Canadian, so yea.....

We can marry who ever we want, including your Vietnamese brides, women and men that are after money in a marriage exist in an country developed or not. No big deal.

The fact you would even suggest that, even sarcastically really shows your thinking. Again, get help, but not from me, cause I can't see your comments after this.

ha ha ha ha it is you and your comrades who start mocking viet girls and men. if I need to see a doctor, you may come with me.

 

[Raphael]

so if Viet bride marries a foreigner, there is a problem.
How about Chinese bride if she marries a non-chinese?

is she a hooker as well?

Maybe I should have been clearer. The OP's article describes a certain type of marriage involving marriage "brokers". These types of marriage necessarily involve loser men and hooker women. They were bound to go wrong. I don't include normal cross-nationality marriages in this category.

 

[Aepsilons]

Many Vietnamese women went to China to get married as an excuse to defraud, Vietnam has many such "Company"

Its simple business. Supply and demand. If there will be Chinese men looking for Vietnamese brides, there will always been a supply.

Lastly, not all Vietnamese foreign brides. The OP is considering minority cases. There are a lot of Vietnamese foreign brides who had married Japanese men. Mostly the Vietnamese brides make good wives, they have more than 3-4 children, raise them lovingly, as well as i have heard.

If there are Vietnamese wives leaving China for Vietnam, one should consider the treatment the wife was receiving. If the wife was being beaten, molested, physically or mentally abused by the husband, then she has the right to leave such destructive relationship. Of course, the OP's article doesn't take that into consideration.