Case Study: Does the brother-sister bond vanish after marriage?

[AugenBlick]

Edit-Add: After reading some dirty insinuations, I had to add this paragraph. Above narration is about my first didi. The niece shows such disrespect to our parents (i.e. her maternal grandparents) also. She used that “When will they leave” line for grandparents also. That’s why mom, dad and second didi are supporting me only. I will paste second didi’s opinion to clarify the matter. I thought normally to this kind of kids, didis say, “You should not talk like that. They are grandparents and uncle. If you are getting distracted, go to bedroom and study.” Instead look what my first didi is doing!

Bro how old is the niece....the problem is she sees you as "outsider".... I have lived apart from my family since 8 yrs. (icl. sister) and she does not see me that way. IDK how this perception was made.

 

[livingdead]

Edit-Add: After reading some dirty insinuations, I had to add this paragraph. Above narration is about my first didi. The niece shows such disrespect to our parents (i.e. her maternal grandparents) also. She used that “When will they leave” line for grandparents also. That’s why mom, dad and second didi are supporting me only. I will paste second didi’s opinion to clarify the matter. I thought normally to this kind of kids, didis say, “You should not talk like that. They are grandparents and uncle. If you are getting distracted, go to bedroom and study.” Instead look what my first didi is doing!

dude, what do you expect people to say. You are telling only your version of truth. Which might as well be true.
First thing, accept that its her home too. Just because she is married does not mean she is outsider. Second, yes most women think of their kids first. Is not not natural in animals too?
Many girls are brought up repeatedly hearing than they will be paraya one day. That her husband's home is her real home. Girls would rather remain in abusive relation than go to their parents because of that.

 

[RAMPAGE]

WTH???

 

[Bharat Muslim]

My Sister and me always were very close . After she passed away i am taking care of both her children , they are family to me and no i do not have any problems.
I think your is more a case of boundaries than anything , Your sister is as entitled to the house as you , if your presence is making he uncomfortable then move the silly comp into your own room ,

I plan to show your reply as an example to my sister. But they may think I am making it up and your id is actually mine. If they ask, "Why should this guy look after his sister's kids? What is the father of the kids doing?" What do I tell them? Please respond.

 

[T90TankGuy]

I plan to show your reply as an example to my sister. But they may think I am making it up and your id is actually mine. If they ask, "Why should this guy look after his sister's kids? What is the father of the kids doing?" What do I tell them? Please respond.

He too passed away in the car crash with my sis.