simple introduction to signal processing. this might fly over your head but it's more for the audience, not you.
when you recieve a radar pulse, the only information you know is energy, direction and time.
if it's a reflection of your own radar pulse, you know the frequency, since you sent it. but if it's an opponent radar pulse, you will have a single data point of energy, direction and time.
you can find out what the enemy's radar pulse is because most radars send out multiple pulses of the same frequency. take a FFT (Fast Fourier Transform) of the pulse train to transform it into the frequency domain, compare to known databases, you know what the radar is. Or at least, if it's an unknown radar, at least you know it's an enemy radar.
problem: AESA radar can change frequency every pulse. This means that a radar computer can't identify them as "all from the same source" as easily. pulse trains from the AESA radar look more noisy and blend into the background radio noise better. Since only the AESA radar operator knows their own frequency, you need to listen longer for a pattern to emerge, and it might be too late.
what is jamming? It is overpowering enemy radar signals with fake radar signals. There are only 2 ways to jam an enemy radar:
1. High intensity in a narrow frequency band targetted towards a particular radar.
2. Equal power in a wide frequency band because you don't know what the frequency of the enemy radar is, but this means the spectral power density is lower.
Here's the problem with trying to jam an AESA radar: you don't know what the next frequency is. So you must use broadband jamming. But AESA radar can use all of its power to broadcast on a single frequency (that changes) while your jammer has to spread its power across a wide frequency band. It can't win.
AESA is essentially unjammable.
Now you might say: but what if the missile isn't radar guided? What if it's optically guided? Gotcha! The datalink can be jammed. But wait, it's just as hard as jamming AESA radar. here's why: the same principle of frequency rotation with AESA radar can also be applied to the datalink. The datalink can change frequency every once in a while using a small phased array as a communication transceiver.
Proof: this is already used in 5G towers