Here is a simile as to who looks worse.
Two people fight, one is 30 year adult and the other is 13 year old teenager, which one looks worse the adult or the teenager? ( even if the adult has a point).
The smilie I am giving here is that Afghanistan slowly coming out of 3 decades of turmoil, it is still learning to exercise and function as a respectable and mature state on the other hand Pakistan a nuclear powered nation with significant influence in the region is expected to act with far higher maturity.
Makes sense?