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Best Age to get Married

Oh!!
That's late by my family standards. Lolzz
I mean 30?? Are you planning to get married when you would 've hit middle age?? By then you might have more grey strands than black over your head.....or you might not have any at all. :P


Loner? Are you?

Naïf! :coffee:
You think ppl get married only to share their money with their partners??
Can you ever think beyond money and accounts??? 8-)

Tunggg na kareiin Auntie ! :alcoholic:
 
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Frankly I feel ppl think of marriage as a huge burden, which is not true.
When you marry young then you've many advantages.
First, you've a partner with whom you would be able to share your good and bad days. I think it's in early 20's that we start facing stress and that's when you need a companion most.
Second, starting early helps you grow together. Emotionally and physically there's a better compatibility between the partners.
Third, I 've seen ppl having affairs for 8-9 years and then parting ways, had they been married chances of 'em parting would 've been lesser is what I feel.
Fourth, chances 're you might 've kids early if you marry early (I think one should get married at 22 but not have a child till 25-27). Having kids early is something that you would be thankful about in the later stage of your life. As @MastanKhan says have them (Kids) while you can still enjoy playing with them.
But the biggest disadvantage of being a parent at young age is that you're not matured enough to handle a child. Speaking from my own experience it was all about "hit and trial" for me.
Fifth, the biological cycle!! I think this should be the biggest reason why ppl should get married early.

But like everything else marrying early also has its pros and cons.
This is my take on this topic, and the references 're from my life. :)

Ideal age is between 25-28 n I disagree with some of your points in above post, maturity(psychologically) is also a determining factor of the right age for marriage....
My take is based on my own experiences....
 
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Ideal age is between 25-28 n I disagree with some of your points in above post, maturity(psychologically) is also a determining factor of the right age for marriage....
Right!
I assumed one would know the person well in advance before he/she got married.
As I told you everything comes with its own pros and cons. But the age is still 22. Lol
My take is based on my own experiences....
Hehehe
Okay!!
But next time don't copy my line :P
 
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Right!
I assumed one would know the person well in advance before he/she got married.
As I told you everything comes with its own pros and cons. But the age is still 22. Lol

Hehehe
Okay!!
But next time don't copy my line :P
Naah... 22 age is the age of exploring the other things in life joyfully not of deciding his/her family size.... In that age I was confused , gullible, shy yet confident to stretch myself to any extent to chase my dreams or ambitions.....
At the age of 28 I made peace within me n transformed myself to live a contended life irrespective of outside tremors , started owning responsibility of my younger siblings...... So will never term 22 is the right age.....
Did not copy but I too said same as have been thru all of this though not yet married ....
 
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Here in Mexico , there're two age groups for marriage.
1) The vast majority are the high school drop out type, who may or may not get married, but start to have babies anyways at 15~16 year of age.
2) College-educated professionals who do not get married until they're in their 30s.
 
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Muslim by tradition, not by religion. I don't take Islamic teachings literally.

i think what you want to say is that you can be least bothered with prayer, festival and all that jazz.

true islam is not at all that ( mysticism )... true islam is early socialism.
 
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i think what you want to say is that you can be least bothered with prayer, festival and all that jazz.

true islam is not at all that ( mysticism )... true islam is early socialism.

To hell with your socialism. :D What I'm saying is that I see Islam as a civilization, not as a religion.
 
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Minimum: 25 for men 20 for women, also Pro Serial sexual Polygyny.
 
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Minimum: 25 for men 20 for women,

this you say only because of the non-scientific/non-communist nature of present societies, where 18 is the age of "maturity" and before that is college and after that is college and beginnings of job life, and of course "voting age".

also Pro Serial sexual Polygyny.

want to keep yourself in circulation, eh??
 
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Here in Mexico , there're two age groups for marriage.
1) The vast majority are the high school drop out type, who may or may not get married, but start to have babies anyways at 15~16 year of age.
2) College-educated professionals who do not get married until they're in their 30s.

This is a world trend.
 
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