To begin with, it is a Pakistani forum. So it is assumed here that Pakistani members will get privileged position
vis-a-vis other members, and especially other members. Never mind that neutrality is cherished and partiality frowned upon in most online fora - on one on PDF got the memo.
But the larger problem is something else. Fora such as this will obviously have differences of opinion on issues of national significance, especially India-vs-Pakistan issues. However, the chasm that I feel is not just in national issues, but in fundamental understanding of concepts. Issues such as anti-Semitism, democracy, freedom of expression seem to be understood differently on PDF than in other fora. If Indians here felt alienated just because they couldn't agree on issues like "what to do about Kashmir" or "should India talk to Pakistan without any pre-conditions" or "is the Su-30MKI better than the F-16 Block 52", it would be fine. But this forum tends to treat issues that the civilized world has settled long ago in such a cavalier fashion that it becomes difficult to take it seriously. One almost feels like a Democrat on a Republican forum, or an athiest on a religious one.
So the chasm is not just of nationality, but of every possible belief. Which means that the provocation to make comments deemed "unacceptable" by the Pakistani elite running this forum is ever-present. After a point, being on this forum means not just keeping quite on pro-India/anti-Pakistan issues, but compromising on most things one has imbibed in life as just and humane.
As an example, let me post a message for which I had been previously banned. Kindly tell me which part of it deserves a ban, because I am yet to figure it out:
Pakistani member said: ↑
You're making that claim based on what empirical data exactly? Last I checked it was the Indian politicians conjuring the Pakistan bogeyman in their election campaigns every chance they got, and it was Indian politicians throwing tantrums and screaming at those critical of their positions to 'go to Pakistan'. Even a cursory look at English language Pakistani news sites offers anecdotal evidence of Indians crawling all over the comments section, trolling, hurling insults and vilifying Pakistan at every opportunity.
Based on the well publicized hate-mongering against Pakistanis visiting India, by elements in the Indian government and outside, your claim doesn't stand. India has of late quite clearly illustrated attitudes that are the opposite of those experienced by Indians visiting Pakistan. I understand the need for Indians to try and 'look good' in comparison to Pakistan every chance they get, but on this issue the publicly available evidence simply doesn't support your contention. Mean spirited, petty, intolerant and hate-mongering - those are the attitudes of India publicized so well of late.
I said:
You are deluded. Pakistan is not even mentioned in everyday conversation in India. I should know, I live here. Forget it being an election issue. It is at best ignored and at worst left to be dealt with by GOI. The only people who seem remotely concerned are Shiv Sena and MNS - parties that are fringe elements in their own states. And they are also responsible for the "hate mongering" that you claim. The silent majority suffers them in silence, just as we have suffered Pakistan's terrorism and war-mongering.
Pakistani member said: ↑
You ppl are literally the most shameless ppl i have ever seen i mean for once speak truth you ppl have hundreds of websites,YT channels,twitter/FB accounts for one purpose just to bash Pakistan you interfere in every matters of our be it Internal or external. Your own BJP leaders gets votes by bashing Pakistan and the irony is that you're saying this on a Pakistani forum have some shame man there are hundreds of Indian members here on this web and guess what 99% of them (incl you obviously) just bash Pakistan on every Pak related thread. @@waz @@Oscar guys please take care of this troll already thank you.
I said:
Proper English with punctuation, please.