You people give satisfaction to and justify your behaviors to yourselfs by utilizing the straw-man technique. That is all to it and NOTHING more.
There are only a few Pakistani forums and you will never see the uncivilized savage posts that are witnessed and are prevelant on indian sites. There are dozens of indian forums that exhibit the behaviors aforementioned and this is not including the comments by indians on your indian news page relating to Pakistan and common ordinary Pakistanis.
Mentality cannot be changed, it is ingrained in upbrining. The facts must be accepted. Putting a curtain over it and pretending that everyone conducts themselves in a civilized way will lead to NOWHERE.