@A-Team my friend. I'd let you off thinking this might be your place to vent out your frustration, and therefore never bothered responding to any of your threads previously. But I think I need to have a few words with you. Well, actually essays directed at you, but do take out the time to read it because this should knock some sense into you.
I can understand Afghans don't trust Pakistan when it comes to political and economical issues, because it government have been supporting the wrong side of Afghanistan for decades. I understand that the general Afghan public loves Indians, but not because of anti-Pakistan sentiments. I understand you don't HAVE TO stay away from Pakistan's enemies in order to repay the hospitality of millions of refugees. I also understand you should be able to co-ordinate and co-operate with whoever you like, without Pakistan's interference. But what you, and the likes of you, also need to understand is that your government's attitude has been hostile towards us since our independence. We might not be threatened by you, simply because your country is not strong enough, but it raises bells of concerns looking at how Afghan government is singing at the tunes of our enemies.
Leaving government's besides, let's talk about our people. Pakistani people always had love and respect for Afghan people, your history, culture and your bravery when it came to overcoming oppression of superpowers. Same wise, Afghan people have lived in Pakistan long enough to see our generosity, hospitality, kindness and what not. We might not have provided for your food and shelter from our own pockets, we might have received billions of Dollars in aid to support the refugees. But we haven't been paid to allow Afghans to stay in Pakistan like you are one of us. You know this too, how back in the days Afghans used to roam all around Pakistan (not just KPK) as if they're in their own country. This was our attitude that didn't interfere in your way of life, NOT the American Dollars.
Just like how Afghan people have paid the price of their government's continuous meddle with Pakistan, same-wise Pakistani people are still paying the price of our government's incorrect decisions time and again. Pakistani public have suffered too, and on top of that we're being shoved up with very demeaning attitude. This needs to stop. Afghanistan can't get away with trying to increase political tension in Pakistan, nor can Pakistan stabilise by doing the opposite to Afghanistan. We Pakistani people are ready to listen to solutions, but Afghans can't throw solutions in form of insults and degration. I know that you and likes of you who roam around online, blaming Pakistan for every fly that bites a child in Afghanistan, are only a very small percentage of Afghan people. But you are supposed to be the educated lot. Grow up.
As for those of you describe Tajiks as racists, or all Afghans as Pakistan-haters, or Afghans as bunch of illiterate beings: stop. You guys are as ignorant about Afghans and Afghanistan, as are some foreigners about Pakistan and Pakistanis.
I've been to Afghanistan twice, and I absolutely loved it. From the people of Kabul, to their culture, traditions, hospitality, fashion, weddings, music, poetry, clothing, food and you name it. It's all very beautiful and pleasant. They're striving towards a more educated and more tolerant capital. They know more about worldly affairs then you would think. And originally people of Kabul don't bare the hatred some online Afghan warriors are showing us.
In fact, the Tajiks seem to be more educated and tolerant than any other Afghan. The more North you go, the lovelier the atmosphere is and the less politically motivated the people are. I'm not ashamed of pointing out the beauty of our neighbours (regardless of how they feel about us), but we would have been so much better as neighbours if we received the same acknowledgement back. Maybe, Inshahlah, one day soon. But I believe that day will come.
