I was harassed in my own building where I have lived for 18 years. The guy came inside the building was selling some jewellery. He took out his toung while looking at my *** and I was in abaya with duppata on my head because I live in saudi. You have to wear abaya whenever you go out. He kept looking at me and made kissing gestures. I ran inside my elevator and pushed all the buttons so he wouldnt know which floor lived.
My friends and I have been followed by men to the restaurant asking how much we will take for a night?
You think its easy for women who are fully clothed?Jaan nikle hoti hai humri. Tell where do I report all of this when Islam
Requires 4 witnesses? I dont have 4 witnesses to prove my harassment.
I din’t tell anyone because it would have taken away MY freedom to go out. I dint want to ruin my life because of one incident and move on with it. This is why girls dont come out because one)the society we have puts restictions on us while we want to go out and make something of ourselves.
Baki. I say to all those girls who kept quite. Allah swt ki zaat bohot bari. We will get our justice on day of judgement .Not on this earth.
Sorry to hear your experiences; no justifications for them. However, women think that men have it all good.
Society discourage MEN even more.
As a MAN, I am telling you that
MEN do not tell because society does not pay heed:
- MAN UP
- YOU are joking right?
- Laughing reactions
Ever heard of bacha-bazi? Victims are not just girls but boys too. Boys can be victims of bullying and abuse in schools as well. Even get long stares at times.
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1. I was walking on a busy road one day. Suddenly, out of nowhere, a fruit struck me. I looked around and nothing. I was angry but whom could I blame?
2. I was walking on a street one day. Suddenly a car came right at me, and stopped just inches away from me. The guy inside, pulled out its key and offered it to me. This may sound funny but my brain was coming to terms with the fact that this guy might have crushed me with his car, then and there, and I was not in the mindset to process his pathetic joke at that moment. This was when it dawned on me - **** walks.
Those are just two incidents. Not telling everything here.
One of my cousins live in a beautiful gated society and he experienced point [2]
minus key offer joke in his society. Not funny. He also felt that the car could have crushed him right there.
Society actually pay heed to complaints of a woman, but a man is expected to tough every incident out there. Coz he is not a flesh and blood but a Terminator.
Coming back to the main point.
What is the point of crying wolf on Twitter? Tell your family and get a male companion to file sexual harassment case against the culprit if you know him in person.
#MeToo movement is problematic.