Yeah, it won't change the truth that bharatis have a shortage of women in their own country and are now fantasizing of Pakistani women out of desperateness.
Your post is filled with holes that it doesn't even take much to tell its a made up story. A fair skinned, blue eyed Pakistani girl marrying a hindu south indian and that too a indian army officer whom she chatted with in 1998-1999. I don't know if this is your personal fantasy or what but if she was chatting with this dark south indian dude in 1998-1999 then i'm guessing she's from the wealthy class of Pakistanis since at that time internet wasn't available to most Pakistanis except for the wealthy class, majority of whom are land owners or in the armed forces (considering the time is 1998-1999), 1998-1999 is also the time when the Kargil conflict took place between Pakistan and india and tension was high between the two nations, both of which were on the brink of a war. Now the wealthy families in Pakistan tend to always wed their sons and daughters into their own tribe, caste, or other wealthy well to do families in Pakistan, and these people are very close/strict minded and like to keep their blood line clean, they are very racist and consider it below them to wed their son or daughter to a dark skinned dravidian, add to that a south indian who's a indian army officer.
Pakistan is a pretty prejudiced country and a lot of people might not know but the caste system does exist in Pakistan in one form or another, and here we have bharatis coming up with these hilarious stories without even doing a good background research of Pakistani society, traditions, and culture before coming up with such nonsense.