What happened to your loved one is without any doubt, unfortunate. What happened in Delhi is unspeakable. Do you believe any sane mind would deny these? But, I have problem with your gross generalisation. Not everyone visiting this country is getting molested or raped. It is a massive country with unimaginable population with diversified Socio-economic backgrounds.
Tell you one thing in short. This country over the past 30 years have gone through a continental shift in economy and it had an wide range of effects on the existing societies. Our cities have changed alongwith huge population shift from rural/semi rural areas to those cities. Not to ignore the fact that through mushrooming of cable tv and internet networks, urbanized style have penetrated rural/semi urban India more than ever. There has to be some consequences. It takes time to settle down when you put different cultures into a hot cauldron suddenly. Not to mention we have thousands of print as well as electronic media waiting like a hungry dog to sensationlize anything that happens without much caring for verification.
Rape is one of the many problems in India as of now, but along with it came a much bigger challenge ; the way it is being projected to the world. I think that is the reason you will find the denial or defensive tone here.
