You won't change or get mature. To support terrorism, one doesn't need to share a "border" with anyone. You do share 50 "cultural centers" in empty mountains around Afghanistan, on the border where Baluchistan and KPK are super easy access, within some miles.
These are areas where less than 1% people even care to know India is a country close by. These "cultural centers" fund and train people to go into Pakistan all the way to Baluchistan. So learn to call terrorism when the other party lose people to your terrorists too. Its not a one way street where you chose which terrorists you hate, and they are bad, and the ones you support and like (including Hindu terrorists inside India, killing Christians and Muslims), those you chose to ignore conveniently and never call them terrorists.
NS wasn't forced for anything. You can bullsheet all day but the truth is, NS went against his own military's advise and tried to setup some peace with you. You guys, on the other hand, high on nationalism and super India's power (that's not there to a degree in which you believe in insanely), shitted all over NS's good wills. At the end, NS had to hear from his military that "we told you so"!!
India becoming a world power isn't exclusive to a violent Hindu extremist organization. How could you even dream for a seat on the UN's permanent council when inside your OWN country, your own government sponsors terrorism against its minorities.
Ask your PM, how many hundreds of Christians and Muslims, his PEEPS killed and he supported those, kept all the law enforcement agencies on the side step allowing the nationalists to rule the area and murder as many as they wanted to from any minority group they wanted to !!!
The world isn't stupid, from the Pope, to the European Union's heads to the President of the US, EVERYONE has told you to stop murdering your own minorities, in the name of Hinduism / religion!! But here, you'll paint a colorful picture that you guys usually present to the West, as to how colorful life is in India, when your minorities sleep in utter fear every night, not knowing if they'll wake up tomorrow or be killed overnight by the Hindu extremists.