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Being a nice girl would not take you ahead of others in the professional race, for a new study suggests that being aggressive and having a masculine approach is what makes you earn big bucks at workplace.

The academic study has shown that "alpha male" women earn an average of 40,000 pounds more over their lifetime than female colleagues who are "nice".

It was found that personality traits are just as important as intelligence in determining how much people earn in their career.

The team found "alpha male" women earn 4 per cent more than those who are deemed to be "passive"-this amount to 40,000 pounds over a lifetime, based on a 40-year career with a 25,000 pounds annual wage.

Scottish businesswoman Michelle Mone, chief executive of the Ultimo lingerie company, agreed that having an assertive manner had aided her success.

Led by Guido Heineck, the study titled ''Does it Pay to be Nice?'' also showed that "conscientious" women, who display self-control and persistence, generally earn 5 per cent more than sloppy colleagues.

Heineck, from the Institute for Employment Research in Nuremberg, Germany, said personality traits such as "agreeableness" were not beneficial in the workplace.

"Our statistics show that being nice does not pay for women, whereas working hard does. This is probably, in part, because agreeable people are too passive in conflict situations and poorer in wage negotiations," The Scotsman quoted him as saying.

He added: "Traditionally, women are more passive and likeable at work. This (research] shows that to be successful in the workplace women have to adapt a more alpha male-like behaviour."

Aggressive, not nice, women earn big bucks at work | India.com
 
My boss is also a female and very aggressive , now i know how she had a fast track growth.:enjoy:
 
The reality is that being "nice" does not get you the big promotion no matter which sex you are. People who rise to the very top of organizations have one quality in common, they look out for themselves in all situations. In other words, they are self-centered. Nice and competent people can rise fairly far in an organization, but the very top spots go to the aggressive self-promoters. If you don't have the stomach for taking credit for other people's ideas and work, you won't make it to the top. :agree:
 
40k more pounds? Don't think they will notice the difference over a lifetime.

If women want to make more money, that have to be like men and work more hours including overtime, stop worrying about flex timing, not leave jobs for 5-10 years, etc. That's why men make much more over their lifetime.
 
There is no substitute for hard work and perseverance :enjoy:
 
There is no substitute for hard work and perseverance :enjoy:

I second that Elmo (don't keep changing names, I am getting confused)!!! but you need to modify one word in your sentence that is hard work to smartly hard work. Life lesson learned.
 
I second that Elmo (don't keep changing names, I am getting confused)!!! but you need to modify one word in your sentence that is hard work to smartly hard work. Life lesson learned.


Hey PDF's Elmo stands out... you shouldn't be getting confused ;)
 
being nice guy or gal = no big bucks
equation applies to both men and women
 
being nice guy or gal = no big bucks
equation applies to both men and women

No the equation applies differently.

When a men is aggressive, he is typically considered a shrewed business man. Whenever you see a women being agressive in business she is labelled as a bithc!!!!
 
No the equation applies differently.

When a men is aggressive, he is typically considered a shrewed business man. Whenever you see a women being agressive in business she is labelled as a bithc!!!!


a shrewed business man also mean s*n of a ****** " shrewed is not a polite word!
 
strong headed women always get it there way and don't need to use seduction for it!!! a woman who knows where she wants to get to is a woman to watch out for!!

as for men well if he is cunning he is considered as a son of a B***H!!


but what matters is what they are chasing people who chase just money end up losing a soul & just loose the plot of life!! and don't get along well with normal people...however, people who know that money is NOT LIFE but just a PART OF IT....are usually the ones who succed ad are still approachable....

ok i am loosing the plot so i am gonna shutup!!!
 
but what matters is what they are chasing people who chase just money end up losing a soul & just loose the plot of life!! and don't get along well with normal people...however, people who know that money is NOT LIFE but just a PART OF IT....are usually the ones who succed ad are still approachable....

ok i am loosing the plot so i am gonna shutup!!!

That is the wrong assumption, people who chase money do not lose there soul or plot of life. Money should only be considered as a tally to what you are doing. If you are doing something right money will increase if not vice versa.

And other thing you mention where "People who know that money is not life but just a part of it," Those people tend be sheeps that follow the flock.
 
@jeypore

kab taak aur kitna bhagaay gaa daulat kaay liyaay sikandar!!

perfect example ALEXANDER the GREAT died chasing money and took nothing he had all the wealth of the world but died lonely!!!

micheal jackson had a house you and i can dream of....and he died of depression....(i know this example doesn't really stick but still)

i seriously feel that people who chase money all the time can't unwind and chill there mind is constantly just thinknig of money thinking of money and even there conversations just become money oriented....

as for people who make money as a part of life...are yes a bit sheepish but are still the ones you can socialize with....and can have conversations on topics OTHER than money.....
 
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