I know, my family was affected by terrorism too. I lost family members to it. I myself nearly missed a bomb blast in Islamabad because I took a different road than usual.
I still remember when Afghan kidnappers would go door to door in Lahore to ask to use restroom for their kids and women, then count all men in the house and return at night to kidnap, murder, and rob Pakistanis.
I also know that many people in KPK have terrible experiences with Afghan mafias, they looted Peshawar, Dir, Swat, Mansehra, and other areas with impunity.
However we cannot paint all Afghans this way. Many are simply victims of the US invasion and the internal infighting in Afghanistan. Many women and children work in homes in Pakistan as servants to feed their families. I feel very strongly for such people. It is humiliating.
I am a Punjabi Rajput from Faislabad, somehow maybe I get along too well with Pukhtoon Pakistanis and Afghans, I don't know. I am also a religious student, in addition to my medical vocation.
I know racism in Pukhtoons is there. I heard any darker skin Pukhtoon called as Kala by other Pukhtoons, and also a light skin Pukhtoon called as Gul Khan. So it goes both ways.
Punjabis can be equally racism, some of the ways we interact with our poorer depressed and dark skinned classes/ peasants is not fair.
There are still some Punjabis stuck in zat politics, while it is 2020 and their children are freely marrying anyone they want. Lol.
We pray for hidaya to all people. We Muslims need to change the way we are thinking, if we choose to be successful. What works for the early Muslims, the same will work for us.
Where are you originally from brother? Karachi?