Sir I thought you knew better than this and at times I wanted to have an objective discussion with you on matters related to Afghanistan but owing to busy schedule I at times cant reply but the way you have depicted all Afghans as ungrateful creatures is very uncalled for. I presume that you may had bad experiences with some bad apples or you follow a bunch of youngs on the streets of Kabul protesting against the Pakistani establishments policy but I have never seen an Afghan actually hate a Pakistani just because he or she is a Pakistani. Please don’t judge all Afghans just because some folks on Facebook spew poison about ISI or their perceived interference in the Afghan matters, so let’s a make a distinction of Afghans attitude towards the Pakistani establishments of meddling in the Afghan affairs. I welcome you to visit Afghanistan especially Kabul and believe it or not Pakistanis are treated like brothers, this may sound cliché but a number of Pakistani engineers worked for me and the one message that I get from them is that what the media shows is quite different than the kind of welcome they get on the ground. So Sir I suggest that before you project or judge a whole nation as ungrateful welcome you to visit things on the ground.
So in short Afghans are grateful for the generosity shown towards by the Pakistani people and they will not forget that but the thing that ticks them is that yes we are grateful but please stop supporting non-state actors who are killing Afghans on the daily basis, who destroy schools and ripping the very foundation of the Afghan society.
So here is a question for you, I see that you have spent time in Arab countries and are grateful towards them but how will you feel if the same country or policy elites support groups that will kills Pakistanis on daily basis, destroy your schools, kill your teachers, kill your children, WHAT will be your feeling towards them then????
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A-Team but I don't agree with the points in your post. I've just gotten up and need to tend to business but a few points (I'll try to write more detailed responses later).
0. On a lighter note the only Afghans who have not vented bile at me are the ones who work for me in Pakistan - but they were born in Pakistan to Afghan refugees, educated in Pakistan and most importantly: they work for me - I am curious what they would say if they did not work for me. I wonder if they celebrate when the Pakistani cricket team looses to India - LOL. To be fair, they do not know of my position of Afghans. So I don't doubt what you say about the Pakistanis who work for you but I wonder if politeness and pecking order have not gotten the better of the truth in this case.
1. A quick Google will reveal personal Pakistani narratives about how they are treated in Afghanistan. I'll try to post some later that I think are rather telling. This is how *people* are treated and not their government. For example: all Americans visiting Tehran remark how friendly the Iranian people are towards them - the difference is easily discernible. By contrast, Pakistanis are frisked, beaten, their documents taken away. A common Indian jest is that Pakistanis have to pretend to be Indians in Afghanistan to escape harassment.
2. We almost opened an office in Kabul - primarily analytics work for US NGOs and government agencies but I was told constantly *off the record* that being a Pakistani-American I would be at a disadvantage. To top it off I was discouraged by close Afghan-American friends, one of whom is a royalist, with connections to the former Afghan Ambassador to the US, Said Tayeb Jawad and others.
3. To your question: KSA and Iran have played a proxy war on Pakistan's streets since the 1980s. Have you seen Pakistanis wish the Saudis ill.
4. I suspect Afghan drugs and guns have killed more Pakistanis and inflicted more damage than any Pakistani proxy. Have you seen Pakistanis beat Afghan's en mass - not even close.
5. Afghanistan started this - no Afghan even denies this - thank Serdar Mohammad Daud Khan *Shaheed* - what we see today is just the snowball effect of that. Have you seen Pakistanis burn Afghan flags?
6. Millions of Afghans live in Pakistan - yet an Afghan visa for Pakistanis is extremely difficult to get: so your claim that this has nothing to do with the Pakistani people is questionable.
7. If Afghans were truly grateful towards the Pakistani people they would have moved quickly to establish a visa free regimen for Pakistanis, allowed easy access to Pakistani businesses - Note Pakistani interference re-emerged circa 2006 however Afghans cut Pakistanis out of Afghanistan day one - I think there was no Pakistani representation at the first Bonn conference (I'd appreciate a reference) - And, this hostility permeates all strata of Afghan society.
8. The argument that you can completely separate the Government of Pakistan from its people is false - the Pakistani government is not staffed by people from Mars, and in someways the Pakistani security apparatus is the most democratic set of institutions in Pakistan. It has the son of a Mali, Nai, Muzara, Maulvee, Land lord, Pashtun, Punjabi, Muhajir (I do concede that Sindhis and Balochs are poorly represented).