An engaging activity that did keep me returning.... some notable and not-so-notable members I will not name....actually have provided me (once you scrape away the banter) in their final visceral reactions, some very beautiful and ugly truths (but truths all the same)...their very core essence and character in a way. I would only get to truly thank them on it in the hereafter if we meet there I suppose (where hate no longer exists and only peace reigns)....such things cannot be said and understood so much in this realm down here with mere words.
Now I am turning more jaded about it all as very few nowadays seem to "get it"....very few engage in (at least initial) good faith anymore or have some credence for why to turn it into more grey or bad faith engagement as a process...rather than default to it.
There is what was once merely a veneer here....that has turned into a thick cloud....even a haze....I don't really think promising more mods/rules/enforcement or whatever is really going to reverse things back to the sweetspot renaissance or golden era. But I am willing to be proven wrong on that...and its just my perspective anyway...and maybe it was just always like that and its my nostalgia speaking too much.
But its really too bad for most that are just finding this place or just finding what they want to give and get out of it. Many worthies give up early now...or are ejected because they have not found the path hewn out for them...or realise its even there....that certain things are needed (whether fair or unfair) like anywhere else if you are to sustainably create your own unique path past that.
So you got it too.
Nice.
Remember, that's exactly what I'd set out to do.
NIMHANS.
Thanks, sorry your community went through such things as well.
We've gotten killed from both sides. As recent as Godhra.
But with Hindus, except two instances in mediaeval India, it's always mistaken identity.
Even today a very large percentage of Indian Hindus will assume we are Muslims, since we are not Hindu, and since we are obviously not lookswise like typical Christian converts.
We are very comfortable with some cultural aspects of Muslims. Like their food. And the aesthetics of their upper crust.
But overall we are spiritually more in tune with Hindus. And as liberal and secular as them.
Which is why we chose India over Pakistan.
Both are our adopted homelands and the same people.
But it's not the people that were the problem in Persia either.