Yes, logically I agree with you, but think practically....
We cannot deny our past, unfortunately, the Mosque was there before India adopted the 'secular' identity....and after adopting a 'secular' and 'democratic' way of ruling ourselves, we cannot use unconstitutional force to settle disputes, we've to rely on judiciary for that....and the last Supreme Court verdict on the matter is to maintain Status-Quo....does that mean the Supreme Court is appeasing Muslims too??....if you think so, or even if it is so, we're bound to abide by its verdict, we chose our destiny ourselves........
Yes, that's one of the ways we can take, trying to make them understand the significance of the matter, what it matters to Hindus, give them examples of 'Makkah' and 'Vatican', give them alternate sites to build their Mosques.....i.e, we have to try to solve the dispute amicably, force/violence is no longer an option I guess....and legal battles will invariably result into stale-mates since, like Ram Mandir, the Babri Masjid was also a reality.
Therefore, it all depends upon how well we can make them understand and what majority of the Muslims want.......
I cannot think of a better approach than this, can anyone suggest any other ways??