The price of victory is sacrifice which Americans have forgotten about. Wars are not fought with money if that was the case the world's super power would be Saudi Arabia. Wars are won by sacrifice but this simple principle has been forgotten by Americans since they embraced Zionism post world war II. Now Americans get scared of any war in which they have to be drafted in and slaughtered on Normandy beaches. That era is gone for American military. So is their victories. Americans today can not take causalities. Their enemies can by millions. So victory just like always goes to the other side, be it vietnam or Iraq.
As for Chinese accepting women, I do not know, maybe some Chinese friends here can comment on that. But I have serious doubts Chinese will accept some grossly overweight, heavily used and abused women to offset the history's largest debt. Would you accept if you were Chinese?
You're right, i agree. My reference was toward the delusive definition of victory which americans have convinced themselves with. They deem victory over the wounds of their enemy yet oblivious to their own.
American women? That's a tough bet; perfer the money instead.