At least 70% of Indian Muslims are anti-India. They may not indulge in anti-national activities but in their heart of hearts, their loyalties lay with Pakistan and other Muslim countries like Arabs etc. Pakistanis don’t accept them but Indian Muslims who lack dignity su(k up to them. I have seen it with my own eyes. In Indo-Pak cricket match, they always root for Pakistan. And it is not due to reasons of sports. If it had been just sports, they wouldn't abuse Indian cricketers. Pakistani cricketers are their heroes. They even name their children after Pakistani cricketers and famous Muslim celebrities - Imran Khan, Zaheer Abbas, Ayub Khan, Saddam Hussain, Yasser Arafat etc. For Indian players, they have only abuses. I have personally seen Indian Muslims ridicule Sachin Tendulkar by calling him 'ded futiya', gidda (midget), bhagwan (sarcastically) etc. Some of your UP Muslim friends may be like that in your absentia.