Here is my thoughts..
1- I personally wish BJP to come to power...But honestly i donot feel that it is going to happen.
2- When BJP choose Modi to lead for 2014,that was the only option available for BJP to stay in contention for the race. Trust me..if BJP choose Sushma or Arun...no one will give any fighting chance for BJP to win even 100 seats....And with such a low number of seats, no one will care about BJP in Indian politics...
3- Modi is the most suitable choice at this point of time for me is again because of compulsion of not getting other persons...But some of the attitudes of Modi is not appreciable. I do not like the fact that every time he is always talking about Gujurat in his speech....He has to learn to appriciate the good work from other regional leaders too....Although he has shown the glimpse of it in his Hyderabd speech...I feel he should continue to do it going forward...Otherwise trust me....even BJP with 200 seats with Modi has a head of the party, BJP will not able to form a GOV...
4- Modi has to learn some of the things about humility and passionate approch towards people and other critics of him in particular...This creates a lot of positive vibe in the mind of people who are poor and helpless....
In a nutshell...at this point of time i think it is the advantage to Non BJP parties to come to power...It may be UPA or Congress backed 3rd front....But if Modi want to change the course of history then he has to definitely change his personality and be amicable with different critics of him in a more appropriate way...If he does not do it...then BJP will go to oblivion in Indian political space...Slowly BJP will be turned into a group of rightist regional party with individual leaders of each state running the show in their respective states....