I don't know how anyone can insist that with a straight face to demand this to be accepted by us. This forum is giving them and their uniformed officers (and all other uniformed officers) proper respect. We even promote Indian army officers to MP title, without prejudice.
It is simply logical to opt for neutral terms. Dekho kya hota hai, baat nikli hai toh duur tak jayegi, but I just don't see how any Pakistani can tolerate people they consider as "shaheed", to be referred to as "Bastards" and "Terrorists".
Also we're only asking everyone to use neutral terms, not Pro-Pakistani terms.
There is also the issue of rival (and in some cases allied too unfortunately) forums coming up with this drama. With the sheer amount of numbers on this forum it is easy to turn this forum into a mudslinging gaali galoch venue. The policy is in view to avoid a bigger problem in the future.
Banning people, especially people with opposing point of views, is not something we take lightly here as they make everything interesting. But the people been banned have purposefully been antagonistic to the forum despite being sufficiently warned.