Sir, I agree with you on strict implementation of law and order, however, the moral corruption has become quite widespread.
In the past few days, there are so many reports coming of abuse of children. Only yesterday, someone was caught with a little girl in Karachi.. Day before yesterday, a small girl was kidnapped and then found later because police/ general public started searching for the kidnappers. However, this will not stop.
I always say that we need reforms in our education, a major overhaul al least. Children from their young age should be taught what the parents have stopped teaching.
Yaar bhai I hope you don't take it to heart what I am going to say, people around me are never comfortable because I have this innate curse of analyzing things and coming up with root cause.
Here are some problems:
Rise of social media and unsupervised usage of phone/internet by children pornography is a hundreds of billions worth industry what people are posting on facebook/twitter/tik tok/whatever is nothing compared to what is being shared on the dark web Less said the better. A young child is crying and the mother/father will hand over the mobile to watch youtube???? questions?
Both of our were born abroad north america to be exact but they were never allowed a TV in their rooms, no computer in their rooms, no tablets, no mobile phones. They could use social media/internet on the computer in the lobby. No parties at friends/no overnight stay/ no tuition centers (when we came back to Pakistan) no visit to madrassah/mosque in US/Canada or Pakistan. They didn't get their mobiles before finishing O levels. Laptops so far only one of them has been given after A levels, no TV in room so far. BTW no female domestic worker during the time males are at home and absolutely no males servants in any case.
Indian channels particularly dramas and movies are a plague in our society even in family gatherings people would be discussing movies and dramas and we have always been blank because we have always made sure to delete all such channels.
We did try to educate our children the choice between right and wrong, sex, good touch and bad touch, what to do, and since both of them are boys strict warning to never force themselves upon an unwilling lady when their time comes.
Never allow the children to play in the street and never ever send the children to "bazar" to bring something you have to plan ahead what you need and buy it once a week or when the male head of the family returns.
Honestly how many families are doing it, its not that we have done something extra its just that me and the better half did not shy away from our responsibilities. Honestly when I see young boys and girls in the markets buying grocery, vegetable I always feel sorry for them, there are predators in our society as well.
Sending children to expensive schools, tuition is just one part , their grooming, their caring, their safety should also be on the plate. There are social/economic concerns but frankly I hold most of the time parents responsible for the mishaps to the children, zainab for example its easy to say was the will of Allah or the deed of a satan, but had the parent been proactive and vigilant trained the children that come what may they never go out in the street, what happened to her there is a high probability must not have happened.
Parents create a barrier between themselves and their children, we made sure there inst any between our and us to the extent that out elder in his junior school days identified a class fellow who was being mistreated by his uncle continuously, when he told us we contacted the principal who upon our insistence involved the parents and would you believe that they refused to believe their own child.
Marriage has become an expensive very expensive thing one sure legal way of easing frustration and satisfying desires, yet we all are responsible of increasing the frustration throughout the day we are receiving and forwarding pornography in our society without realizing it is addiction and a source of frustration to those who cannot vent their hormones. Honestly I have blocked all my friends who used to send me the garbage, if ever i receive any I delete it without even looking at it.
As they say charity begins at home, our society will improve when we start improving ourselves and start taking responsibility of our future generation.
