@NagaBaba
if I'm a woman, I don't want some weak ugly thing impregnating me.. because I want good stronk babies.. because the species depends on it.
Well, women want two things.
#1 As you rightly said, strong, handsome and virile mates for siring healthy progeny (and pleasure as well)
#2 Men who can provide and take care of them and their offsprings and wouldnt run away chasing a harem (this is an issue only in settled societies of course)
So, "smart" women would marry Males #2 but date #1 on the sly. "Alpha for ****s, Beta for bucks" as the vulgar saying goes
Regards