if she is coming then emphasize all your reservations & ideas. and tell her if there is India's role in Afghanistan then "do more" will be "no more".
India has zero scarifies in this long 16 years of war. tell her that afghan war cant be fought in Pakistan.
U.S always ignore the reservations of regional countries (Russia, China, Iran, Pakistan) and that's why U.S is lacking to achieve the objective in Afghanistan. all regional countries should be on table except India, because India is the biggest hurdle for afghan stability. so rather then going with India, U.S should go with other regional countries Pakistan, Iran, China & Russia to get objective in Afghanistan because all regional countries have same reservations except India, that's why Pakistan is preparing the meeting with regional countries and decided to go beijing first. and will get masscow, tehran, turkey and KSA.
U.S ignored Ajit Doval Statement
"How do you tackle Pakistan?.....We start working on Pakistan's vulnerabilities--
economic, internal security,
political, isolating them internationally, it can be anything..... it can be defeating Pakistan's policies in Afghanistan...... You stop the terrorists by denying them weapons, funds and manpower. Deny them funds by countering with one-and-a-half times more funding. If they have 1200 crores give them 1800 crores and they are on our side...who are the Taliban fighting for? It's because they haven't got jobs or someone has misled them. The Taliban are mercenaries. So go for more of the
covert thing (against Pakistan)..."
Ajit Doval, India's National Security Advisor
British Afghan war veteran Major Robert Gallimore says "he saw no presence of ISI in Afghanistan. During his two tours of duty in Afghanistan, he could hear all the radio conversations going on but never heard any Pakistani accent. He did, however, see "buckets and buckets of money" and rising Indian influence with many in Afghan Army blaming Pakistan for all their problems. Pakistan is their bogeyman. Major Gallimore sees the emergence of an India-Pakistan 21st century "Great Game" similar to its British-Russian predecessor. Many Afghans support creation of Pashtunistan by annexing northern part of Pakistan into Afghanistan. They blame Pakistan for the Durand Line, not the British or their own leaders who agreed to it. As a result, Afghanistan has become much more volatile and dangerous than ever before".
first try to understand what U.S actually wants, Right now U.S is not interested about peace in Afghanistan, U.S is only interested to make money from Afghanistan Resources, and that's why want to get rid of Taliban because Taliban Controls the area where minerals are exist. it's my personal opinion. and i think only Pakistan will be helpful for U.S if there is no India's role in Afghanistan to negotiate with Taliban in a perfect manner.
prepare all the things and reservations including regional countries roles in Afghanistan except India.