First of all, let me thank you. As since long ago i knew i have a problem, now i know its name. I watched the first video, the first 5 minutes explain it all and i couldn’t agree more. As per the videos and symptms, turnesout i am “yellow”. Remind me of the “the darkest mind movie” where if you are orange, you are killed ASAP. Khair, after reading your post, watching the video you added and some google searches , i decided to study psychology as a subject and actually downloaded a pdf book of the subject.
Why so ? And why its on top ? Or the ranking is random ? I think intelectualism should be at top.
Tell me about it. It sucks. At occasions, i have to handle a whole lot of people because i think different. And i would be like “yes . You are right (even when they are not. Sometime i dont even bother engaging someone in a discussion even if they says something illogical/inacurate or do something wrong). . Nice talking you all. Thanks for coming. Bye”.
How does it effect health ? I know one reason that lots of stress as no one understands you due to which you feel isolated, what else ?
Suffered alot.
Totally relatable.
Good mate, the more you know the more you can work on developing yourself and being better for the people who matter in your life.
Remember MBTI (INFJ) = how your subconscious is choosing to use your brain (Cognitive Functions).
You want to do some research on Ni (Introverted Intuition) and Fe (Extroverted Feeling) as these two functions are mostly responsible for most of what you deal with or suffer from.
Enneagram = What hidden emotions and fears on the subconcious level are causing you to use the brain the way you are.
But above all, remember we can reprogram the sub conscious mind to work the way we want, and we can evolve out of constraints and imprisonment that we inflict on our own selves.
As for being rare. This does not have anything to do with being on top or better.
Basically the world is full of Sensor Types (People who observe physical phenomena and their decision making is based around what they see, hear, smell with their senses), and Extroverts (Who gain their energy by socializing and communicating with others). Intuitives (People who use intuition/imagination to make decisions) are far less, and Introverted Intuitives are the rarest. Intuitive Introverts make about 5 - 7% of the overall population and among them INFJ type is about 1% only, and that's mostly because it's extremely tough to be one. After that INTJ are around 2% or so and INFP are like 2.5% and INTP are 4 - 5%. And all of these four types find it extremely tough to get along with the rest of the world and mostly regarded as loners and weirdos and mad folk.
Yet the Introverted Intuitives are the most gifted folk when it comes to IQ and EQ.
I can relate to you mostly because my type is the closest to yours (INFP) and the main difference is while you are concerned with maintaining peace in your external environment to feel peace inside yourself and hence will accommodate people's feelings and try not to hurt them (Extroverted Feeling Fe). I on the other hand am more concerned with maintaining my inner values and authenticity and hence will rub the hard truth on people's faces and calling people to their bullshit in a very straight and blunt language (Introverted Feeling Fi).
My own brother is an INFJ, while some of the folk who I've been able to closely relate to or not get bored from have been INFJ's.
As for health. Mental health is linked with everything. If your cognitive health is in good shape, you will feel better and function better at every level. If you are not balanced with in, then every thing in real life will keep falling apart.
Here a re a couple of good reads
https://personalityjunkie.com/the-infj/
https://www.psychologyjunkie.com/2017/03/11/the-four-reasons-infjs-struggle-with-loneliness/
Just make sure to not make this an obsession and start constraining yourself within this type. You are who you choose to be, and people can choose to be anything they want if they so dare to venture within and work on discovering and reprogramming their unconscious self.