I would rather not go into a prolonged debate.
But to start off, the Politicians have so much arrogance , they don't even look at the peon or servant. Bureaucrats are even more worse.
Military men on the other hand, talk to them frankly, eat with them, and sometimes sleep with them. Although you might argue about that because in the field they have to do it. But it is part of them that they have to be a team and work with everybody. A politician thinks he is the Almighty person.
A officer is trained to be a bit aggressive, but not at all a bad or person. Officers to tend to get angry quickly, but then they still have that feeling in them that the other guy is also a human.
Now onto the officer-civilian attitude....oh leave it. Unless you don't see it, you don't get it.
Bureaucrats kay nakhra hi bauhaut hotay hain.