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India gang-rape emboldened victims, says family on anniversary

New Delhi — The fatal gang-rape of a student on a bus in New Delhi shattered India's silence over sexual violence and emboldened victims to speak out, family members and campaigners said Monday on the anniversary of the attack.

The victim's father, who cannot be named for legal reasons, said the assault on his 23-year-old daughter on a moving bus on December 16 last year "shook not just us but the entire country and the world".

"We will only say that this date should be celebrated... so that people keep getting inspired and keep joining this movement, coming together to ensure the safety of women," the father told India's NDTV network.

Her mother said her daughter's bravery before her death should continue to motivate Indian women to "fight against such crimes and to raise their voices against such crimes".

The physiotherapy student suffered a savage sexual assault at the hands of six men, including with an iron rod, after she boarded a private bus while going home from the cinema with a male friend.

She died from her injuries 13 days later.

The brutality of the attack, and her determination to survive so she could report her attackers to police, sparked large-scale and sometimes violent protests as well as soul-searching about India's treatment of women.

The case led to reform of rape and sexual assault laws and shone an international spotlight on what Indian women's groups called a "rape epidemic" in the country.

Four of her attackers were convicted and given the death penalty in September after the case was fast-tracked, while a juvenile was sentenced to a detention centre.

While police expect annual figures to show a rise in the number of reported rapes, campaigners say the increase is in fact a welcome indicator of changing attitudes.

"Last year's movement seems to have empowered more people to speak out against sexual violence," Kavita Krishnan, secretary of the All India Progressive Women's Association, told the Indian Express newspaper.

Divya Iyer, a researcher for Amnesty International, agreed that more women were coming forward to report attacks -- but said it was a trend largely confined to towns and cities.

"Women have been empowered to speak out since the case and there are more crimes being reported. But you have to look at who are these women, where is this happening?" Iyer told AFP.

"It is mainly middle-class women. It is not across the board.... in rural areas in particular, access to justice is a problem.

"Not only is there social stigma, but there is no guarantee that their complaint of rape will be taken seriously by police, let alone result in a conviction," she added.

The comments came as pressure mounted on a retired Supreme Court judge accused of sexually harassing a law intern in a case that has shaken the legal community.

The woman has claimed the judge harassed her in a hotel room in December last year -- around the time huge protests were taking place over the Delhi gang-rape.

Her affidavit to a three-judge panel set up to look into the allegations was detailed in the Indian Express on Monday.

Asok Kumar Ganguly has denied the allegations but is coming under growing pressure to resign as head of a state human rights body.

Women, students and rights activists are expected to gather in the capital later Monday to hold a peaceful protest to mark the gang-rape.

The victim's father said although penalties for offenders had increased and handling of assault complaints had improved, problems still existed, including the time taken to settle cases in India's notoriously slow legal system.

"It is true what happened to my daughter has caused massive changes in the system, but we still feel that it hasn?t yet shown its complete impact," he said.

"I really pray to God that something like this never happens again and no one has to go through something like this."

Her mother said she would keep fighting for a tougher penalty for the convicted juvenile, who is serving a maximum three years in detention.

"We still hear her voice, her laugh and talk...we dream of her," she said.

AFP: India gang-rape emboldened victims, says family on anniversary
 
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Hearing about this story still makes me sick to my stomach. The sad reality is that , there are many cases like hers that do not even make the municipal news outlets. Such is the perks of living in a society where women as seen as inferior beings I guess.
 
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Where United States top in rape cases, India is ranked second in rape statistics.

India is the place where sexual assault is rapidly increasing. Recently a medical student of 23 years turned out to be the victim of a gang in a bus. The identity of the girl was not disclosed. She was thrown out of the bus after the rape. She was taken to the Singapore Hospital and she died there after struggling a lot. She told her brother that she tried a lot to escape but couldn’t as the inhumane boys were threatening her of killing. The gang threw the girl out of the bus as they thought that she was dead. A number of protests were conducted against this case. But you would be amazed to know that in spite of all the protests and mourning over this girl, on the same day another girl was being raped by a bus driver. All in all, India must ponder upon this crime seriously as after every 20 minutes, a female is subjected to this sin. This would end up in the destruction of the country.

No frustrated man should be allowed anger over innocent girl and rape her in any place of the world. It will be great if the girls will speak against this brutality.
 
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New Delhi: 'I am unable to shake off the guilt'

New Delhi: He was the sole eye-witness to the barbaric gang-rape of a young woman on December 16 last year. A year after the heinous incident that outraged the entire nation, the woman's friend, Avanindra Pandey, said he is still plagued by guilt and shock, and will never be the same again for years.

Pandey (29), who had boarded the private bus from south Delhi's Munirka bus stop along with the 23-year-old trainee physiotherapist on that fateful night, said the only satisfaction he has was that four of the accused have been sentenced to death.

But Pandey has one more demand: the accused minor should be given a harsher punishment.

"I often ask myself if I am to blame for this? Why did I go to that mall? Why did I board that bus? I was not able to even speak properly for two weeks afterwards," said Pandey, a software engineer.

"I survived that night and am alive to tell the tale," Pandey said.His friend died 13 days after the brutal attack.

Recalling the 84 minutes of horror he had spent in the moving bus as the rapists, including a minor, tortured and brutalised his friend, Pandey recounting the incident, says, "After watching the movie, we tried to hire an auto and go to her home (in Dwarka in southwest Delhi) but the drivers refused to go.

Then, we asked one of them to take us to the Munirka bus stop. We reached the bus stop where we spotted the private bus that was already standing there. A boy (one of the six accused) was calling us to get on board."

He said he felt that something was wrong when they sat down in the bus.

"I had an intuition that something was wrong. The five men behaved as if they were the passengers. A boy came to us and asked money for tickets. They then locked the doors of the bus and switched off the lights," he recounts, adding, "The three men then came towards us and one of them punched me on the face. A scuffle broke out between us. They snatched our phones and beat us with rods."

Pandey further states, "They dragged me away so that they could attack her. I tried to scream and seek help from outside. I also tried to break the window pane but couldn't as I was semi-conscious."

He said after raping his friend, the attackers threw both of them out of the bus without any clothes. "I tried to get up and wave at the moving traffic. Some cars stopped, saw us and left without helping. A highway patrol van spotted us and called police and we were taken to the hospital," Pandey added.

The young man said he was deeply shocked to see how people kept staring at him at the Safdarjung Hospital but no one even gave him clothes.

The youth said he was satisfied that one of the six accused Ram Singh met his end by hanging himself in Tihar Jail around three months after the incident, while four others have been given the death penalty.

"The juvenile should also be given a harsh punishment because he will easily get freedom from reformatory home though he was the most brutal," Pandey added. "I am yet to recover from that night. I am still in shock. I am unable to shake away the guilt. I don't know, it will take years for me to be the same again. I am scared for life."

Verdict on death for rapists likely in January

The Delhi High Court verdict in the December 16 gang rape case confirming the death sentence of the four accused is likely to be delivered in January, lawyers said. The high court has been hearing appeals of the four accused and arguments on the death sentence on a daily basis in the sensational case of the 23-year-old who was brutally raped in 2012. Sharing their anguish about the delay in the verdict, the parents of the victim said, "We want the culprits to be hanged as soon as possible."

Lessons learnt
Following the incident, the Delhi police have improved:
Increasing man power. Now the Vasant Vihar police station has 150 staff, including 25 women
The police station has two emergency response vehicles
A separate room for the interrogation of women accused hasbeen set up -- the first one in Delhi, while one more lock up has been added.

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The number of rapes reported at the police station this year


New Delhi: 'I am unable to shake off the guilt' | NDTV.com

^^^ The scary part is that, it can happen to any of us!!
 
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In my opinion this problem would be solved if the brothers, fathers, uncles etc gunned down anyone who assualted their women hence avenging them but then again thats just me, I know its something any man worth his salt would do......
 
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In my opinion this problem would be solved if the brothers, fathers, uncles etc gunned down anyone who assualted their women hence avenging them but then again thats just me, I know its something any man worth his salt would do......
Its not that simple though mate. People who rape others do it to project power over another human being. There are prostitutes in every single country out there. The problem has a much deeper root. It goes back into our preconceived notion of what it means to be men in our culture. The problem is more physiological. The best way to eradicate this if though education, not through brute.

Making examples of rapists and pedophiles will not stop others from doing the same thing, just as hanging murders has not stopped people from killing each other.
 
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In my opinion this problem would be solved if the brothers, fathers, uncles etc gunned down anyone who assualted their women hence avenging them but then again thats just me, I know its something any man worth his salt would do......
How can you say it will solve the problem. There are other ways to decrease the rape percentage. Give education to men, tell women to dress properly and cover their body.
 
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How can you say it will solve the problem. There are other ways to decrease the rape percentage. Give education to men, tell women to dress properly and cover their body.

it is not about that. Again we are passing the burden of guilt on women. We men have to change our mindset that if woman is dressed provocatively she is a slut and if she fully covered she is most chaste.

If a woman is not dressed properly and she is raped, should the cuprit be not punished ?
 
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its a catch 22. A woman should not be walking in the back alleys with revealing clothes on... but then a woman / or any other regular person should avoid walking behind back alleys in the first place.

Let common sense prevail.
 
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it is not about that. Again we are passing the burden of guilt on women. We men have to change our mindset that if woman is dressed provocatively she is a slut and if she fully covered she is most chaste.

If a woman is not dressed properly and she is raped, should the cuprit be not punished ?
That man should be punished but do you know why there are less rape cases in muslim countries?
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I am not saying that women are responsible for rape cases. But they should change them selves too with men. You are a man, you know better.
 
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Its not that simple though mate. People who rape others do it to project power over another human being. There are prostitutes in every single country out there. The problem has a much deeper root. It goes back into our preconceived notion of what it means to be men in our culture. The problem is more physiological. The best way to eradicate this if though education, not through brute.

Making examples of rapists and pedophiles will not stop others from doing the same thing, just as hanging murders has not stopped people from killing each other.

although I am not trying to promote extra-judicial killings or anything but the fact is that the rapists biggest weapon is the silence and patience of the victim's herself and her family, they hide behind their humility and submisson, there was one account of an attempted assualt in my ancestral area during the Afghan war by a refugee who was conviently found dead in a ditch the next morning and there has been zero occurance in my area ever since....
 
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This gang rape shaked the whole India . Bangladesh also. However after this incident happened in India, the reports of rapes increased to manifold in Bangladesh. I think the rapists got inspired by Indian gang rape. There were continous reports of rapes in local newspaper everyday. I think we men have become animals. We just see a girl a piece of flesh and we want pleasure by playing with that piece of flesh. Infact I myself have dirty thoughts in my minds when I see very hot girls and want her in bed. I don't want to be called rapist. If I do sex it will be within social boundary and mutual consent. Untill then I can control myself.
 
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How can you say it will solve the problem. There are other ways to decrease the rape percentage. Give education to men, tell women to dress properly and cover their body.

education in not the solution, all men know that rape is wrong, almost all have sisters atleast mother etc, if a man doesnt know this naturally then no amount of education can teach him, on the latter point I agree with you modesty is the key but will only go so far, the perpetrator should fear retalliation by the family or atleast by the police (which is absent in most cases)...

This gang rape shaked the whole India . Bangladesh also. However after this incident happened in India, the reports of rapes increased to manifold in Bangladesh. I think the rapists got inspired by Indian gang rape. There were continous reports of rapes in local newspaper everyday. I think we men have become animals. We just see a girl a piece of flesh and we want pleasure by playing with that piece of flesh. Infact I myself have dirty thoughts in my minds when I see very hot girls and want her in bed. I don't want to be called rapist. If I do sex it will be within social boundary and mutual consent. Untill then I can control myself.

and this my friend is the differnce between a man and a rapist....
 
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This gang rape shaked the whole India . Bangladesh also. However after this incident happened in India, the reports of rapes increased to manifold in Bangladesh. I think the rapists got inspired by Indian gang rape. There were continous reports of rapes in local newspaper everyday. I think we men have become animals. We just see a girl a piece of flesh and we want pleasure by playing with that piece of flesh. Infact I myself have dirty thoughts in my minds when I see very hot girls and want her in bed. I don't want to be called rapist. If I do sex it will be within social boundary and mutual consent. Untill then I can control myself.

Did it occur to tyou that maybe the victims were inspired by the case and reported it to the officials?
 
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