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Maybe change the flag system.
When I first joined, I realized that many posters didn't care what I actually wrote in my posts, and back then my posts were positive towards almost everyone.
But a certain group of members here, only see my Chinese flag, and instantly go on the attack as soon as they see it.
For some people that have read my posts, they would think I am staunchly anti-India, anti-Afghanistan & anti-American. I am none of those things: I am a naturalized American citizen, my mom was born & raised in India; & my mom's family lives in India. I have absolutely nothing against Afghanistan or the Afghan people. I am a staunch Pakistani of course, but sometimes, there is no right or wrong answers in many situations. We are forced to take sides on difficult issues, & we defend our position to death even when the answer is not black or white, but in the 'gray area'.
Sometimes, I feel like the PDF brings out the worst in me, because I do not have anything against anybody, against anyone from any nationality. I don't take pride in offending others. There is always a war of words going on here, & I don't know if any of you have any regrets for any of your posts, but I do sometimes, because it is not who I am, & sometimes it brings out the worst in me. This is an excellent forum, a place where the voices of people from many countries is heard. So I would appreciate it if any of you could give suggestions on how to make this place 'friendlier', to learn from each other, & use it for knowledge & learning, for each other's benefit; rather than hurting each other.
Maybe change the flag system.
When I first joined, I realized that many posters didn't care what I actually wrote in my posts, and back then my posts were positive towards almost everyone.
But a certain group of members here, they only see the Chinese flag, and instantly go on the attack as soon as they see it.
CD is the person I have seen change the most in last 15 months.. I remember the time when he used to be accused as a false flagger Indian, because his posts were so benevolent towards India... Now he is probably the most anti Indian Chinese on the forum. I still doubt at times if his account was hacked or sold (yes, that happens) , but if the change is in real, then its the most drastic one I have seen in any single Individual..Kind of a case study for Bilal's OP thoughts..
CD is the person I have seen change the most in last 15 months.. I remember the time when he used to be accused as a false flagger Indian, because his posts were so benevolent towards India... Now he is probably the most anti Indian Chinese on the forum. I still doubt at times if his account was hacked or sold (yes, that happens) , but if the change is in real, then its the most drastic one I have seen in any single Individual..Kind of a case study for Bilal's OP thoughts..
Haha I think my reaction was perfectly logical to be honest.
For every positive thing I said about India, I would be called a "slanty-eyed chink faggot" several times every week. Ironically, always by Indians.
If you called a black person the n-word several times a week for months and months, I would be extremely surprised if they remained friendly. Wouldn't you?
So now I'm just giving them what they were expecting in the first place when they saw the red flag.
I would not like to single out anyone here, I think this is a general problem that has affected most users to an extent, & just a select few have not been affected over time.
I would not like to single out anyone here, I think this is a general problem that has affected most users to an extent, & just a select few have not been affected over time.