India has only one solution and Gen. Bakshi alluded to it. India needs to grow balls that are commensurate with it's size. The problem India has is simple. It was a whimp, it is a whimp and will continue being a whimp.
As the good General mentioned look at what US did, look what what Pak did, look at what Russia is doing. And yes today India's options are rather limited as the host mentioned but I would like to ask him what was India doing in 1940s, 1950s, 1960s, 1970s, 1980s before the nuclear deterant licked in? India had the size, India had the resources advantage against a tiny country. It should have knocked Pakistan out during all those decades. Pakistan would not have even been able to get up let alone cause trouble.
Any other country (not a big puffed up cow) would have conquered by force Pakistan administered Kashmir and then destroyed Pakistan Army. It would have then made sure Pakistan unravels as a functioning state - this would have left Pakistan to focus on standing up again or surviving let alone causing trouble to India.
But then Ganga would need to grow a set - which she does not have.
* For 70 years India has failed to tame Pakistan. Today it can do sweet all.So learn to take it.