Listen, I have no problem with an individual Pakistani but SOME of your countrymen have the assumption that Afghanistan is like their stomping ground and they can do whatever they like their. Maybe I was rash in saying we should limit relations drastically and I can tell by your credentials in your sig that you are a respectable and knowledgable person.Good luck, may all your wishes come true. May ALLAH (SWT) grant our Afghan brothers every success, peace and posterity. I have worked closely with Afghan's and in Afghanistan itself, not everyone i have met subscribes to the same acerbic views that you hold.
I am happy for Afghanistan, that her youth are free thinking enough to decide openly on what direction they wish to see their country take towards progress.
However i feel i must say that since the 1980's Pakistan has played host to your countrymen/women, we have sheltered many and many have children who hold Pakistani nationality, many refuse to return to Afghanistan, their home is with us, we have not forced them to say that or feel that way, it is how they feel.
In closing i will leave you with these parting words: Make new friends, but remember the old, for the new are the Silver, the old are the GOLD!
We are under no means perfect but a lot of our problems are being caused by Pakistan, in a perfect world I would love for Afghanistan to be close with Pakistan who are a Islamic friend but this is a world under the influence of Shai tann and at this point in time the less relations with Pakistan will help us. But no doubt Pakistan at this point is a much more successful country in fact there is no comparison.