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This mentality of "log kua kahain hey" has ruined Pakistani society for decades. It has its goods, but it also has its bads. A woman should not fear the society and/or community when trying to get justice. She should not have to choose between being labeled "aisee aurat" just because she wants to claim her rights which her husband is denying her.
And about the whole divorce ratio situation. It's common knowledge that the reason Pakistan has low divorce rate is not because marriages are successful, but rather because the woman is told to be quiet and accept her conditions because that's the norm, or else she'll be labeled as "gharelu key bighayr wali aurat"
If a woman could go to the Prophet PBUH just because her husband was impotent, and not fear that she'll be considered petty or unwoman-like, then we shouldn't fear divorce rates rising because women want to demand their rights. Men in Pakistan need to start treating their women better as per Islamic law.
This mentality of "log kua kahain hey" has ruined Pakistani society for decades. It has its goods, but it also has its bads. A woman should not fear the society and/or community when trying to get justice. She should not have to choose between being labeled "aisee aurat" just because she wants to claim her rights which her husband is denying her.
And about the whole divorce ratio situation. It's common knowledge that the reason Pakistan has low divorce rate is not because marriages are successful, but rather because the woman is told to be quiet and accept her conditions because that's the norm, or else she'll be labeled as "gharelu key bighayr wali aurat"
If a woman could go to the Prophet PBUH just because her husband was impotent, and not fear that she'll be considered petty or unwoman-like, then we shouldn't fear divorce rates rising because women want to demand their rights. Men in Pakistan need to start treating their women better as per Islamic law.
The main reasons of our society is the lack of interest and knowledge of Quran and Ahadeeth. Common people don’t bother to learn the wisdom from Quran and Ahadeeth.
Husband’s rights towards wife and V.V
Living in Combine family system
Low income and on top of that to live within the budget
Cultural imperatives on marriage and death occasions increase complexity
Are some of the many reasons of family disputes that lead to divorce.
This is true that women has to sacrifice in most cases but that’s how our society has been developed. It can’t be changed without following our religion.
Illicit relationship outside wedlock is haram
At the same time if married life is not going good and for the sake of children if both men and women don’t want to seperate and a man want to go for the second wife it’s should be made easy.
There should be a court who could listen to men’s concerns as well and should help in for a man to have second wife
This would help in giving many widow orphans and divorced women to live as a family. In Pakistan normally people hesitate to have a divorced or widow instead making it their life miserable. In Arab countries divorced women easily get into a second marriage as compared to Pakistan that’s why people consider divorce as a curse here.
To protect this situation women has to believe and accept the ruling of Islam for husband’s rights of more marriages.
It’s fact that in most of the cases women had to suffer but there is positive effects as well in the form of low divorce rate and longer family life.
Law should be made for consultation with both husband and wife with Quran teaching to make them understand that husband has the right for more marriages while maintaining the first wife and wife has to acknowledge that and husband under no circumstances has to right to beat abuse or insult the wife or her family
He should share his love care and respect to all his wives.
In Jannat both will live together again if both successfully manage to enter Jannat with the blessings of ALLAH so companionship here is temporary but in Jannat it will be forever then why to object here for second marriage where as in Jannat the wives will be living with 70 Hoors.
کیا حسین لمحے ہوں گے کیا عجب گھڑی ہو گی
سنا ہے حوروں کے درمیان بیگم بھی کھڑی ہو گی
