13 Things All Girls Need to Stop Doing ASAP

[lastofthepatriots]

Hahaha. Talk about being ambitious.

Black widow spider can have a heart but this is just asking too much.

A leopard doesnt change her spot.
An elephant never forgets.

Look at it this way. There will be women out there who would be doing all that and say #BitchesBeBitches and it will be a feminist movie after some scientifical study comes out.

Its a lost cause.



Unless you can come up with 4 witnesses that you saw Eve take the apple. You sir should be careful.

Who knows Eve was having a bad medical day?

Jokes aside. Thats a myth busted by everyone with a common sense.

 

[El Sidd]

We frequently find that girls are all too ready to proclaim themselves feminists, but their actions tell a very different story. You are sometimes your own worst enemies so be careful.

Here are thirteen things every girl has to stop doing ASAP:

1. Stop putting girls against each other based on looks
Don’t treat women like public property, to be commented on and discussed. They’re not models, and neither are you.

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Unless you are.

In which case, OMG TYRA BANKS READS MANGOBAAZ?

2. Stop trying to Maya Khan every girl you see
Is she living alone in another city for work? Has she popped out baby number 3 on her 3rd wedding anniversary? Is she dating her sixth guy this month? Not. Your. Business.

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The patriarchal society we live in polices women enough without women joining in. Every time you denounce some act of some girl, you’re making you’re own sphere of action that much narrower for yourself too. Don’t be a part of it.

3. Stop trying to shaadi.com every girl you see
With the amount of aunty bashing that goes on in these parts, we doubt any of them read our posts. So if you are, instead, a victim, shut it down. Unless you’ve specifically asked for eligible bachelors, nobody should be running you through their mental database or be issuing dire warnings of your ticking biological clock and of what happens to ‘ziada parhi likhi larkian‘.

On the eve of her 28th birthday the unmarried girl undergoes a horrific transformation.

4. Stop trying to Naukri.com every girl you see
Same goes for work. Feminism doesn’t mean all women have to work and have wildly successful careers. It just means that they should have the freedom to do whatever it is that they want to do. If that is cooking classes, committee parties and parlor appointments, you should be broad minded enough to accept it.

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5. Stop Zubaida Apa-ing all girls
Don’t dish out random beauty totkay to girls who didn’t ask for them. We know you have the ultimate solution to weight loss and a glowing complexion, but unwarranted sharing comes across as an insult. Unless it’s a problem they’ve asked your help for, keep your ‘beauty secrets’ to yourself.

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6. Don’t Hamza Abbasi girls
Hard as it may be for some of you, try and avoid moral proclamations on other girls behavior or dress. Religion and morality are both personal so just focus on being a better person yourself.

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7. Don’t blame girls for the harassment they have faced
Ranging from catcalls to outright groping, none of it is the fault of where a girl is, how she’s dressed or how she is behaving. Nobody asks for it. Ever. That’s why its called harassment, dumbass. You should instead wholeheartedly condemn it, and try and create an environment of support and trust instead of asking tum nay duppata liya va tha?

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8. Don’t let derogatory comments pass
Whatever your own circle of influence, be it your family , friends or workplace, call out anybody who you think is doing any of the above. Being a part of any such conversation makes you a party to it. So speak up.

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9. Don’t ignore harassment
This could be as simple as reaching out to the girl involved and offering her support. You could try and convince her to get the individual reported or confront the perpetrator himself. Sexual harassment thrives on the silence of its victims, so you should always step in and call it out.

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10. Stop ignoring things at home
It all starts from the home. For those with sons, nephews, brothers, know that these beliefs take root at home. Make sure you always reinforce ideas of equality and respect and break the sense of entitlement that boys in Pakistan start to learn from the day they’re born.

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11. Stop ignoring daughters
Daughters, nieces, sisters also need to be taught all this at home. They’re looking and learning from your responses and how you live your life all the time. Comments like larkian ooncha nahin bolteen, bahir nahin jaateen, jawab nahin daiteen are all going to make them more and more susceptible to become victims of patriarchy. Empower them to know that they just have as much a right to everything their brothers do.

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Also larkon ko bhi ooncha nahi bolna chahiye. Just, by the way.

12. Don’t stick up for your “friends” only
For some women escaping an abusive husband or calling out harassment can be unthinkable. The poorer classes often find themselves doubly vulnerable with an economic dependence on their abusers. Not to say that women from well off families don’t find themselves in a similar predicament. You should try and step in and help the women find a way out of it.

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It’s important to not be preachy and imagine that the decision to speak out is as much of a no-brainer for a victim of harassment as it may be for you.

13. Be true to yourself
The social pressure can be immense, but you should stay strong and authentic. Don’t let it turn you into a kitty party aunty and don’t let it make you feel like you’re wasting your education if you don’t work. Do what you want to do. If you want to dress up every day, great. If you can’t stand makeup, great. Just don’t let anybody else think that they can dictate your life choices because you’re a girl.



Lmao ..

I see you met @Divergent

 

[Well.wisher]

I see you met @Divergent

Lmao .
Nah I met some girls in real life who fits this all in the article .

As for divergent , she has been supportive.

 

[El Sidd]

Lmao .
Nah I met some girls in real life who fits this all in the article .

As for divergent , she has been supportive.

Well you maybe a tomboy because thats all what girls do. Look at @Politico hogging all the glory. Even @Śakra is a total mean girls racist.

 

[Well.wisher]

Well you maybe a tomboy because thats all what girls do. Look at @Politico hogging all the glory. Even @Śakra is a total mean girls racist.

You're being judgemental about these girls , u don't know them in person do u ?
As for me , I'm just chilled , non judgemental , nd easy going person ..

 

[El Sidd]

You're being judgemental about these girls , u don't know them in person do u ?
As for me , I'm just chilled , non judgemental , nd easy going person ..

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If thats you. Unfortunate reflexes. How do you drink the lassi?

Its just banter. Everyone knows.

 

[Well.wisher]

If thats you. Unfortunate reflexes. How do you drink the lassi?

Its just banter. Everyone knows.

What ?

 

[Azadkashmir]

if they want equality then a man should accept it, however women should also accept man beating after all equality is what they wanted, i just being factual. I have read from forums women who were feminist now regret it since they having problem getting relationship and babies. sexual revolution from america started way before George soros.
I noticed a women can be aged but she still has a mind of a child they are emotional thinkers.

 

[El Sidd]

What ?

Your video. Its promoting anti lassi agenda.

I am just teasing you baba

they are emotional thinkers.

If i say islam catered to that by having a law to double check their testimony under oath

I will be crucified.

So i just observe silently.

 

[Well.wisher]

Your video. Its promoting anti lassi agenda.

I am just teasing you baba
y.

4 bottle vodka , na mujhy koi rokay na kisi ne rooka ! : D

 

[Azadkashmir]

Your video. Its promoting anti lassi agenda.

I am just teasing you baba



If i say islam catered to that by having a law to double check their testimony under oath

I will be crucified.

So i just observe silently.

well i gonna re-educate my new wife when i get her.

 

[El Sidd]

4 bottle vodka , na mujhy koi rokay na kisi ne rooka ! : D
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Vodka ese log bolte hain jese chai.

If pollution carries the way its now. Vodka will not be enough to ease any na rokay janay wali beemari.

Tum log direct null kay paani se vodka kion jatay ho. Moderation naam ki koi cheez nahi.

 

[TheLahoriGuy]

One stop closer to PakistanMangobaazForum I guess.

Vodka ese log bolte hain jese chai.

If pollution carries the way its now. Vodka will not be enough to ease any na rokay janay wali beemari.

Tum log direct null kay paani se vodka kion jatay ho. Moderation naam ki koi cheez nahi.

Nulkay wali vodka challay gee ?

 

[El Sidd]

well i gonna re-educate my new wife when i get her.

New wife...?

Those mail order brides are a scam sir.

Nulkay wali vodka challay gee ?

Napoleon died of arsenic poisoning. I guess we are 220 million Napoleons.

 

[Well.wisher]

Vodka ese log bolte hain jese chai.

If pollution carries the way its now. Vodka will not be enough to ease any na rokay janay wali beemari.

Tum log direct null kay paani se vodka kion jatay ho. Moderation naam ki koi cheez nahi.

It was just a song , relax ..
Vodka .. no .. haram tobah .