When you give respect to other traditions, you get respect. In the same pic I see a Shia leader greeting her with a hindu namaste.. but you won't understand.
First steps? Why do you think Vajpai sahab came to Pakistan for? And why Modi came to Pakistan for? We've tried again and again, your army always has the last laugh. So we will wait for the coup and then talk to the actual rulers of Pakistan. So that your army can tell you, look civillians we...
Check the timing of Kargil and Uri. Paranoia is about being delusional, these events actually happened. If Kashmir is resolved by civilian government of Pakistan, your army will lose it's grip on the country. Because then, instead of questioning your rich PM (businessman) about his lavishness...
For withdrawing.. our media was like.. they'll do this and that. Was there any official confirmation from UK about overriding the GA verdict? If there was.. you guys are right.
Halwa is a good suggestion.. you can also try Apple cake/ pie.
The dutch variant of halwa is the famous
Appelmoes. Very easy and kids love it.
http://www.thedutchtable.com/2013/09/appelmoes.html?m=1