I'm not really a serving soldier or officer, i'm an intel guy/analyst. It's my job to think like the terrorists and anticipate their actions. Finding ways to counter the threat posed by these elements also falls to me. But in an active operational area, everyone is active service, I can boast of my share of kills and close calls ! Even now I am on the hit list with a huge bounty and the title of kafir(non-muslim) on my head, courtesy of the Taliban.
As for sectarian violence. Well in that respect we are stable(till now) a part from a few isolated incidents of pure bigotry, sectarianism is not really a problem. The army already operates schools in every region where they maintain a presence. The schools are called "Army Public Schools and Colleges", the syllabus and exams are all centralized.
We understand the need for bringing children into an environment where they can be safe from terrorist influence, that is why books and sports goods are often distributed in operational areas so that the children will remain busy in their own games and hopefully won't start adopting terrorism. We learnt that many teenagers join the Taliban out of sheer boredom. Imagine a teenager with nothing to do but grow crops, he joins the Taliban and now he has his own firearm, pretty soon he will move up and will take control of his area. He will then have his own brand, spanking new 4x4 SUV, command of hundreds of armed terrorists, he will rule the hearts of his people through fear, men prepared to blow themselves up at his command, and what I hate the most...he can abduct girls from their houses to his own pleasure and her family is powerless to do anything about it. So we are trying to keep them away from this "Thrill" of being a terrorist.
We also operate centres for captured suicide bombers, where they are taught about the value of their life and respect for other's.
If you understand hindi do tell me, I will direct you to a link of a documentary about Swat after the operation, in which they show such a centre, it's in Urdu but if you understand hindi you'll be able to understand most of it.