I understand your anger, but in the eyes of international court, this matter is equally important both from your side as well as from the side of Arabs. Besides, I don't see any Arab participant cursing your country here except for maybe Pakistanis and a couple of Palestinians.
I am a frequent visitor to Bahrain, Oman and UAE and they are really open countries who might consider having a diplomatic ties with all countries around the globe and are quite liberal. Despite a non-democratic setup, these 3 countries have a very good administrative structure and people live in relative ease and comfort here. Most of the noise comes from Saudi, Syria, Kuwait, Pakistan, Libya (who doesn't like us Swiss either for some stupid reason), Bangladesh, Afghanistan and Iran. Other than that, I don't think any other country is disturbed with Israeli existence.
You'd notice that most countries who make a hue and cry about Israel are the countries that have absolutely no conflict with them whether diplomatic or even for that matter, territorial.
Well since the matter is exclusively regarding Israel and Palestinian authority, I would not comment much on this. However, I agree with you about certain members' wrong attitude.