Yaar, please donot take me in a wrong way, people act a bit weird, especially towards Pakistani's, I know you are fed up with it, and simply expressing yourself in the best possible way you could.
But, I simply request you to just improve your method of expression, it will be very good really. As you pointed out in your post just be a little soft, or try to, I hope you will listen to a brother, thanks, have a good night